[myoasis89]

do you find it difficult to sleep after sex...my bf wasn't able to sleep overnight when we had sex one night because his parents are strict and want him home...he can only stay over on friday nights not weekdays. so he went home...and I was wide awake the whole night because I guess I felt I needed someone to hold me...does anyone feel like this

[El-ahrairah]

yeah i do that too sometimes

[DragonSong]

I have felt this way many times but I am married so dont have the problem of him being away from me but we can have sex and I will lay awake for hours if not all night and have not figured out why

[Gojamadar]

Originally Posted by DragonSong

I have felt this way many times but I am married so dont have the problem of him being away from me but we can have sex and I will lay awake for hours if not all night and have not figured out why

Hi,
It is to do with the process of going to sleep. I wrote in an earlier post that the process of sleep requires a lowering of temperature and the lowering of excitement. Simply having a quick jump only raises your temperature and hightens your desire. Clearly there is a difference in the sexual needs of male and female. Most males flake out after an orgasm while women need more time. You heard the saying: "left high and dry!"