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Old Jan 12, 2011, 05:34 PM
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I often have dreams that involve someone trying to hurt or kill me... but i am always very turned on by it. They started when i was young.. i would dream that a man was chasing me, planning on raping and killing me, and i'm always scared in the dream, but wake up and almost like that feeling.
Last night I had a dream in which a guy told me that he was going to try to kill me at some point during the night, and that knowledge made me sooo turned out and i just remember the feeling of passion was so strong. he had a big sharp knife and i was trying to get rid of it, but at same time was so drawn to him sexually.
What does this mean?? Why do i feel so attracted to the feeling of being scared and almost being killed? Is there a name for this? Is it some sort of sexual fetish? How can i explore this safely?

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Old Jan 13, 2011, 02:39 PM
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Interesting science article related to it, especially the last section: http://cmbi.bjmu.edu.cn/news/0401/78.htm

Another science report I really liked: http://firstnerve.com/2009/03/basic-...r-and-sex.html

Here's a Drama/English? paper that's interesting?: http://pages.uoregon.edu/jlesage/Jul...APETHREAT.HTML
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Old Jan 15, 2011, 11:36 AM
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I have sex dreams and it makes me mad because i feel like i did something that i would not do in real life.it makes me pretty mad so then I dont even want to sleep.
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Old Jan 18, 2011, 03:01 AM
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I understand what you are feeling. Ever since I was young I liked having dreams where I was bound or something like that... I don't understand it either... dreams are strange.
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