[Aida100]

Usually, when I dream, I dream of very ordinary things, like being at work or doing household chores. Very boring. Lately, however, I have been having a lot of sex dreams. I won't get into detail about any of them, but they have been pretty explicit. Sometimes they involve my husband, sometimes some random women, and sometimes I'm just by myself.

It's weird because I don't have a very big sex drive to begin with, and I am by no means deprived. Afterwards, I wake up feeling like I just had an orgasm, which is kinda nice, actually, but I feel a little ashamed. I feel like I cheated on my husband... if not physically, at least emotionally. Why would I all of a sudden start having dreams like this?

I don't altogether mind the dreams, I just think it's unusual for me.

[Umbral_Seraph]

These kinds of dreams just ebb and flow for me so when I get them it's pretty random. When I was taking mirtazipine, however, I would get these dreams very frequently. If you changed medications recently I would think that would be the biggest influence, but otherwise I can't say why you would all of a sudden get these dreams

[Perna]

Yes, we can't bottle up our body's feelings for long, they will come out. You say you don't have much of a sex drive but that's pretty much your perception of your sex drive, not how your body sees it.

But the dreams could also be an expression of other things; you say you have dreams of "ordinary" things like household chores and it's possible your psyche is telling you to "break out" a bit in your actual life and try new, different, more "exciting" things for yourself and your life.

Have you and your husband discussed doing anything, going anywhere, spending money, etc. lately and had different opinions/wants about it? Could be if you're worried about something that your psyche is telling you it's okay, you can give whatever it is a try instead of just being "stuck" in a worried state.