[happiedasiy]

I talk in my sleep and i dont think it's fair that when I wake up in the morning my partner is mad at me for something that I've said while a sleep when he wont even tell me what i said. Anyone else out there? Help!

[roads]

I'm pretty good at remembering my dreams & have talked in my sleep since childhood. Often my dreams include reading aloud (earlier to schoolchildren, now to folks in nursing homes). I have read of people who (IRL) repeat what others say--& do so in their dreams. Is there anything like this that you do IRL? Or that ring any bells with you?

What I'm suggesting is that everything a person says while sleep-talking isn't necessary a thought expression.

In a calm moment, you might try discussing with your partner the importance of context. A lot of what a person says takes on different meanings depending on the context in which it is uttered. I can't think of an example--darn memory! Lack of rather.

Good luck. Sad he doesn't realize that he's using not telling you what you said as ammunition for turning this into a fight.

[gma45]

I talk in my sleep have done so since I was a child. Had a live-in boyfriend that said I would sound like I was speaking in another language as if some aliens invaded my body sooo.....from then on I always say I am not responsible for what I say while I sleep just to many others it my be! And your boy friend is not fighting fair if he will not let you know what you even said! Shame on him!

[cin1]

i used to mumble weird things, and before i got sick the last time, i was going over and over with sounds. sometimes before i drift off i make weird noises. i think it is the meds i take before bed, just a guess

[Inedible]

Why even assume he is telling the truth that you said something?

[happiedasiy]

Originally Posted by Inedible

Why even assume he is telling the truth that you said something?

I cant, I am an honest loyal person always have been faithful for over 13 years. I may have some resentment on how he use to treat me but I have accepted him with all of his demons.

[happiedasiy]

Originally Posted by gma45

I talk in my sleep have done so since I was a child. Had a live-in boyfriend that said I would sound like I was speaking in another language as if some aliens invaded my body sooo.....from then on I always say I am not responsible for what I say while I sleep just to many others it my be! And your boy friend is not fighting fair if he will not let you know what you even said! Shame on him!

Thanks for your support!

[happiedasiy]

Originally Posted by gma45

I talk in my sleep have done so since I was a child. Had a live-in boyfriend that said I would sound like I was speaking in another language as if some aliens invaded my body sooo.....from then on I always say I am not responsible for what I say while I sleep just to many others it my be! And your boy friend is not fighting fair if he will not let you know what you even said! Shame on him!

Cant fight with him he has done so much for me, I crumble and just ask for forgiveness. Forgive me for I know not what I say.

[happiedasiy]

Originally Posted by Inedible

Why even assume he is telling the truth that you said something?

I am honest to a fault.
I just wish I could shut up!