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Old Jan 22, 2012, 02:46 AM
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Hi, the other night i had a dream that i was visiting some unknown friends in a warehouse and this other group came along and started to torture members and made me watch and help.(eg: putting people into stocks and making myself put bags over thier heads) i wants really part of any side i was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.

It got to the point that i woke up crying

i hope that this dosent mean anything bad ut having some sort of outline would be great

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Old Jan 23, 2012, 02:03 PM
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Dreams are never bad, they are just our unconscious's way of trying to get us to understand something, to help us out understanding our waking life. All the symbols and actions are our own, since it is our dream so the person dreaming is the best able to "interpret" what the dream might be saying to the dreamer.

Your warehouse group dream reminded me a little of "West Side Story" and those two gangs constantly battling one another. I think West Side Story is just another, more modern take on "Romeo and Juliet". Do you have others in your life you feel are more in control of you and your behavior than you are? Do you feel you are being "forced" to participate in life the way they want you to instead of how you'd like it to be? For example, we all have heard of the stories of fathers, grandfathers, etc. all being doctors or lawyers or some other specialty and the son being expected to be that but wanting something else ("Dead Poets Society"). Do you have anything like that going on in your life where you are being forced to put yourself in the stocks and wear a bag over your own head?

It could even be about who you see/associate with, the wealthy girl/guy in love with the person from the "wrong side" of the tracks, sexual orientation, or any other "disagreement" between what you feel and what others want for you.
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Old Jan 24, 2012, 02:24 AM
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That makes me understand heaps! I'm always conscious of the fact my partner has two sons to two different women and I feel like I am battling them all the time. I am the one who has had a job out of the three of us and has been able to support my partner instead of the other way around I their cases.
And in a way I feel as though I am being forced because I am not getting what I want because of his history..

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Old Jan 27, 2012, 12:36 PM
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I forgot I have this, which I love:

Fights

Your partner warehouses women? LOL
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Old Jan 28, 2012, 07:12 AM
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Lol. No but just has two constantly at his neck! And now in turn at mine.

Trying to stalk me on Facebook. Getting "free" items through them eg: computers I buy for them shoes clothes. Now even school fees and uniforms!
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Old Feb 09, 2012, 01:52 AM
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Fighting in dreams usually reflects some kind of emotional conflict. So you have to ask yourself what problems are you struggling with in waking life.
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