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Old Jul 08, 2012, 01:48 PM
Nasir8719 Nasir8719 is offline
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A quick back story:

I've known and been in complete adoration of this female for years. We've always remained friends even though we both knew there was more. The fact we remained friends for so long was down to the fact she moved away from our area and ended up getting into a relationship and blessing the world with a little boy.
Breaking it down, her man was treating her poorly which she eventually saw wasn't beneficial to either her or her son.

She returned back to my area and we spoke on the feelings we had before she had left. To cut it short, we've been together now for 8/9 months and couldn't be happier. Both her and her son are a complete precious joy in my life, and both I would do anything to provide, care and protect.

Now when we first started expanding our relationship romantically I had a dream that I was in a hospital trying to find a "missing patient" which was her. Sadly in the dream she wasn't in good health and I willing donated all of my organs so she could provide the relationship her son needs; to be a mother and watch, help and aid him growing into an adult.

This is where it gets a bit confusing, recently she keeps going on about her ex (the father of her son) and how he is telling her he has changed his ways, realised what he's lost with her....
So last night, I dreamt that whilst on my death bed she returned my organs/gift of life back to me stating that her first diagnosis by the doctors was completely wrong.

Can anyone help me with the symbolic nature of this dream please?

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Old Jul 09, 2012, 01:04 AM
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Youi are afraid that she feels that her choice in you was "completely wrong" and that everything you are giving/gave to her and her son (the protecting, providing, and loving I mean) are going to be returned to you. The irony here is in that you would be given the gift of your own life back. I have a feeling this is what is confusing you. It may be that you are reading a fear of how she might feel about what she has done to your life. Maybe you are also concerned that she thinks she took away any chances you might have had to have a fulfilling life in exchange for being with her? The ending message is still the same - a fear that she believes that things are better off without you, and a general sense that this is a misconception on her part.
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