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Hello, i had a dream tonight about a girl that im used to be in close contact with.. we never developed any kind of relationship sadly, she was a player, everybody warned me.. it all started from her eyes scanning me and got to us together going to the gym like 6 times a week for 2 months straight. she spent money on me and people were surprised to hear that she does, claiming she's suppoused to be a goldigger and that she really loves me. she also lied she has a boyfriend, added another guy in the scene attempting to make me jelous by inviting him over to her grandma for a meal and ANNOUNCING that in my face, and also kissed a girl infront of my face claiming she was her boyfriend all that time. she also left 10 photos on my phone of us together.
no matter what happens shes in my mind.. shes a mean player but somehow she was soft and gentle with me, she was afraid to lose our connection, you could really see.. she had big plans like i did but i screwed and it didnt work out. GOTTA MENTION SHES STUNNING, SHE HAS MANY MEN AROUND 24/7. most of the time she was emotionless.. she couldnt say "i miss you" or hug for no reason.. or express love of any kind like other girls often do her only way to show love was teasing. but when we see eachother randomly she usually shows lots of love and teases ALOT.. now i had a dream ive been talking with another girl i barely speak to, which is her friend, it happened at my house's garden, and suddenly she showed up. when i saw her face in the dream i could see love in her eyes.. what i never saw in real and as usual we hugged and i could feel love and warmness in her hug, i kissed her cheek and she kissed my neck a couple of times then we swinged to the left and the right (that kind of hug) i told her i missed her and she did so too (she never told me "i missed you"). (WE HAVNT BEEN TALKING FOR LIKE A MONTH NOW, DOES THIS DREAM MEANS SHE MISSES ME!? IF IT DOES IM THE HAPPIEST MAN ON EARTH.) now as i woke up it really made me wonder can she really have emotions.. perhaps it was what i want her to be... im confused.. this dream really blew my mind.. i need a definition.. BADLY. Thanks in advance, Lio. |
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I would say it sounds like your brain trying to show you all the things you missed whilst with her, the emotions and such.
you clearly still love this lady even if she is unable to show emotions. it could be she has been through a rough past which has left her unable to show her feelings, she could be scared of being hurt emotionally if she shows she has any. it is totally your choice if you wish to try again to win her affection or not, but be careful, girls like this need very gentle and consistant reminders that you will not hurt/let them down, but given time and consistency and understanding her emotions may flood back and need help to be sorted out into good and distructive ones. |
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