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Mar 08, 2013, 11:56 AM
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Alright, so for some background information, I have only been dating my boyfriend for 4-5 months. I had this dream a night after a big fight when we temporarily broke up.
It started out with me picking out a beautiful wedding dress. Like, super pretty. My mom and sister were there with me, but they didn't think it was that great. My boyfriend walked in and told me I looked beautiful, and then said we have to get out there, the wedding is starting. He left, and I followed shortly after. My dad didn't walk me down the aisle, he was off busy doing something else. (what can be more important than your daughter's wedding, right?) At the altar the priest started off with his speech, when suddenly everyone in the audience started leaving. I started panicking, and my mom (who was standing behind me) told me I didn't have to go through with it. So I ran off crying or whatever. My boyfriend caught up to me and he was angry and broke a vase. He asked me why I ran away and I told him that's not how my dream wedding was supposed to be like. (ironic, right?) He told me it was okay and took my hand and we walked off together. So my family isn't super supportive of the relationship between me and my boyfriend, is that the only message of the dream? What do you think? |
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Mar 08, 2013, 04:43 PM
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My stress often kicks in dreaming, repeat dreams I pay attention to single occurrence rarely....even on stress issues. Marriage can be greatly pleasing but also a relationship stress, in the least dreaming about it! If your having "dating" issues of course they may trigger further relationship dreams being its in the frontal thoughts, yours.
I would say this is nothing to be to surprised or worried about, many parents don't agree with spouse selections. I have three girls that someday will marry and I'm sure I'll be upset in some manor as to their decisions. I'll pray for the best outcome and surely be blessed with grandchildren eventually. In regards to even talking of marriage after less than 1 yr together, I'd say don't use that vocabulary. I've married twice, the first after 6 months in a relationship. The second after 5 years together, and am much more satisfied the second time. Best wishes!
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Mar 09, 2013, 11:44 AM
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This dreams shows self support, and that you feel just fine having any relationship you like, regardless of approval or disapproval from others.
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