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Old Jun 18, 2013, 09:18 AM
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This dream is telling me something and I can't figure it out
It starts with me at this ladies house. She appears happy and smiling at me. I ask for a gift and she gives me a little statue of an owl. We sit and tak and I then discover that she is French. After a while, we start to disagree and then it turns violent. For an old woman, she can sure put up a fight! Both of us didn't win the fight and I ended up running away with the statue.
The second is just bizarre!
I was some sort of superhero with the ability to fly. At first I couldn't, but then as I ran and focused more, and with one big leap, I was flying 2 meters above the ground. I was actually going pretty fast! This one ended when I was going higher and higher into the sky.
The third one just upsets me in so many ways.
I was at a gas station to grab some soda. The guy told me that the ones in the back were older, so I took the older soda and left. I left the gas station and started to walk home. I ended up at my friends house. Me and her were sitting on her bed not saying anything. She then said something that really upset me. I then cried out and turned around. I grabbed a piece of paper and a red crayon. I drew what looked like an hourglass and colored it in red. She was saying something (probably apologizing) and started to cry. After I was done, we heard a noise coming from outside. We both went to look out the window. As we did, I didn't look at her. We saw that there was a fairly large crowd of people standing right below her window. They looked about our age and didn't seem to notice us. Then I spotted one guy standing out of the crowd to the far left. It was my crush. He was the only one who looked up at me. When he looked up and saw me, I put my head back inside the window and started to shake. My heart was racing. The dream ended when I was walking down the street as 2 guys were walking behind me. They were my age and one had a skateboard.
What does any of this mean???
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Old Jun 18, 2013, 09:20 PM
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There is a transition from a nice relationship with the lady to a fighting relationship. I wonder what in your inner world she represents. Do you have any associations to people who speak French? Any associations to owls?

Flying can be associated with un-grounded-ness, living above the ground or in an inflated ego state.

in the third dream, what is this friend like? What associations do you have to her, or to being at her house?

do you ever draw in real life? has the concept of "hourglass" been on your mind in any context recently?

Your crush is the only one in the crowd who notices you. That certainly is a special quality of attention, although perhaps not always a welcome kind of attention (his attention has been unwelcome in past dreams).
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Old Jun 19, 2013, 11:07 AM
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Well, I speak a little French and I miss taking classes (I now am taking German). I don't care for owls, but I find them cute birds :3 As for my friend, she was my closest friend...until she began to push me away. It started at the end of junior year, and now she still does not want to be around me. I did noting to her and said nothing that would upset her. We have never had a fight before, only minor disagreements. She would rather hang around her other friends. I honestly feel like crap and trying to reach her by texting and messaging, but she won't reply :'( Guess I have to deal with it.
I love to draw and am going into cartooning and illustrating for the Japanese art style of manga. And hourglasses have not been on my mind recently. I don't know why I used the color red though.
For the crowd and my crush, I guess it's just telling me that I'm not over him. I'm trying so hard to get over him...and nothing is working He pops up here and there when I try and forget. It just takes time :P
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Old Jun 19, 2013, 04:15 PM
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With both the woman and your friend, you have both some friendly moments and some strife. I am guessing there is some part of you, some part of your inner world that you have a difficult relationship with.

Both your crush as he shows up in your dreams, and your friend in real life, are displaying some coldness toward you.

You wrote just now "it takes time," which makes me think of the hourglass. Maybe you are telling yourself that healing takes time.

In my opinion you are over your crush the real-life guy, but in your dreams he is a symbol for a part of you that you have a similar relationship with. You get a certain quality of attention from this part of you (symbolized by the creepy stares, or by the idea he is the only one in a crowd who notices you).

In my dreams, sometimes my first girlfriend from 23 years ago appears. I haven't spoken with her in 21 years but she still shows up. I think she symbolizes some part of me.
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Old Jun 19, 2013, 04:32 PM
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Maybe the healing part is right. It takes time. I think I used the color red because red is my favorite color. I guess my friend just doesn't want to be my friend anymore and I have to accept that. It will take time to deal with that as well. I also have to deal with him appearing in my dreams. Hopefully he won't be as creepy as he used to be!
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