A wedding and a house of red ice?

I had two strange dreams, very unlike my usual ones...

The one was me marrying my ex. I was the one who broke up (he was good and loved me, but we weren't a good match) We tried to stay friends, but had a fight and aren't talking now. After the fight I saw twice I were marrying him (not the actual marriage, but all preparations before and after it). I were really anxious, it was only his family present and I felt embarrassed to show him to my own family, in case they came, and I felt trapped in general, as I knew I didn't feel good about living with him. But then we moved to our own house and I sort of liked it. I woke up very confused.

The other dream is not related to the above. I saw that our family house was a mansion with a huge, snowy yard. I couldn't stay in the house anymore (dunno why), and were building my own at the edge of the yard, within the night. I were using these big bricks of ice. At some moment I noticed they had lots of red, as if there was blood trapped in them. I knew I hadn't harmed anyone, so I kept making it without question, knowing it was the only way to make it. When I completed it it looked like a warehouse, even had tools inside. Then a friend came and took me away, trying to find me a better home (one with many roommates). What the hell?

If you have any comments please tell...they are so confusing.

Well, those are interesting dreams but I have no idea how to interpret them. Maybe someone else in this forum can help you out.

Reunion within yourself, moving to a better place within yourself.

In the 2nd dream you moved away from angry feelings that are now frozen in ice. Once again, you moved to a better place within yourself, only to find more parts of yourself (roommates).

Great shot! you really helped me think. I currently try to stop living with my parents. There are no jobs here (crisis...), so I'm prepared to freeze all the dreams that make me feel alive in order to get ANY job. I just found one, actually.
In the dream, I weren't happy in the friendly house either (I have ADHD and many people give me a headache). I ran away and started walking around the dark apartment house, trying to find another place, but at least I had a non-dark, non-icy, non-bloody place to sleep if I failed.

Weird.

About the first...I re-thought on it, two of the reasons I broke up is that I didn't like his social behavior, and that we never had our own place. But why did I see it twice? Was it because I wanted to realize I broke up for the right reasons, or because I actually regret it? I'm not sure about how I feel after this...

Dreams often mirror real life situations. Good Work!