[xxxyyyzzz]

About 4 months ago, one of my closest friends (not anymore) decided to cut ties with me because of, let's call it a "misunderstanding". Ever since that day, I had dreams about us either talking things out, or things being the way they used to be, and they disappointed me when I woke up because I knew that it wasn't going to happen in real life. After a couple of weeks, they stopped, but kind of kept coming back.

About 2 months ago, I decided to "try" to talk to him (in the beginning he said he didn't want to be my friend anymore but that he needed time to see if he was going to forgive me or not), and tell him all these things I'd bottled up over those past 2 months, because I thought that these things I left unsaid were the root of these dreams about what I call "false reality". After that, the dreams stopped again.

Lately, however, the dreams are coming back. They're not about talking things out or things being how they used to be anymore. They're about reality (him ignoring me/not talking to me and stuff)

I don't know what they mean. I don't know if anyone else has been in a similar situation. I'm trying to move on but it's hard since he keeps popping up in my dreams, and I don't know what to do. Are they going to leave on their own? Or do I need to do something so they can go away? Thank you for taking the time to read this

[kaliope]

a lot of people believe that our dreams are our subconscious trying to sort through our daily lives. it would seem that you still have a lot of unresolved issues with your friend. the dreams seem to decrease after the talk but there is still a lot left unsaid. perhaps if you wrote a letter, not one you send, just one that you write everything you ever wanted to say about this relationship. where you dont have to be careful about language or hurt feelings or embarrassment and get out everything that is bothering or hurting you and when you are ready to let go, burn it. maybe then you can have some peace. take care

[xxxyyyzzz]

That's the thing kaliope. I already talked to him and wrote a loooong letter and finished it about a month and a half ago. I hid it and haven't looked at it ever since. It helped take thoughts and feelings out of my system but the dreams are still here. I actually had one last night. And I wish I could just talk to him. He's the one who decided to stop being my friend, he's the one who's moving on. I should move on too

[Thunder Bow]

Dreams are all about our feelings. They mirror your feelings about the situation you speak of. Also they could be about how you relate to yourself inside yourself.