[trashking]

I had a dream about my friend, we'll call her Margaret. Anyway she was gonna take me on an adventure or something that she couldn't figure out on her own. She had me sit right between her and my ex who i hadn't seen or spoken to in a year or more. I silently broke it off a while back but i have bouts where i miss him so much and call myself stupid for leaving him but he would probably never want to see me again. I was so uncomfortable between them and she was hitting on him which made me grab his hand. Anyway he looked great and i felt myself smile stupidly. He smiled back at me and i leaned on him smiling with a dreamy hazy feeling and commented on his face. He smiled and quirked an eyebrow and i can't remember what he said but i laughed softly. We made it to the place and it was trivia esque and after a good 6 minutes i guess i guessed and we moved on. The next level was scary and i grabbed his hand again and we had to sit down at a table and by scary i mean this level was gorey and i felt in danger. I sat on his lap and i don't remember what happened because dreams are hard to remember after so long. This is embarrassing to say but because I'm a little obsessed with a certain actor,my ex had that face. Dreams are weird,yo.

[MusicMike]

Because he had the actor's face, I'm guessing this is about a romantic fantasy, which can be a way of experiencing the masculine within you. Margaret is the part of you who perhaps has a double role - the part that wants to get back with your ex, but also the part who can encourage you to relate to the masculine within. You got close to your ex - you grabbed his hand and sat in his lap, and I would imagine this was reassuring. You probably have a real part of you inside who can play that role for you.

[trashking]

Thank you very much for the help, but I'm not that bright and am going to need help understandimg the interpretation,please? I'm very very sorry unu;

[MusicMike]

Well, one idea to grasp is that your mind can contain different "parts" or "aspects." You know how your emotions and thoughts can seem different in different situations? You know how sometimes the words that come out of your mouth can surprise you, or you may regret them?

Dreams represent this situation by representing your mind as containing distinct personalities, which can show up in the dream as other people, animals, or even objects.

A curious thing about women is that they often contain an inner masculine personality. And men contain an inner feminine personality. So when a guy shows up in your dreams, especially one you feel close to or are attracted strongly to, the dream can be using that guy to represent the masculine within you.

The guy can also be just the guy in real life. Sometimes you have to figure it out.

Because this guy had an actor's face, it suggests to me that he's the inner masculine rather than the real-life guy.

Margaret is another personality within you who seems to contain your leftover romantic feelings for your ex as she seems to function to bring you back to him. But at the same time she is attracted to the external guy, she can also serve to bring you closer to the inner masculine.

You seem to really be comforted by this guy in this dream. That suggests to me there is a really healthy aspect of your relationship to the inner masculine. But it's never "all good" or "all bad" with these inner parts. A part can help you out, but maybe remind you of something you're missing at the same time. For instance, waking up from this dream you might just feel MORE confused about your feelings toward him.

The thing to remember is that this dream did contain some images of comfort from this guy. At least I'm assuming so - - did it comfort you to hold his hand and sit in his lap? If so, that means there is a REAL inner masculine who can be there for you in real life.

But dreams are speaking of things that are usually unconscious. You may not be able to be 100% conscious of how the inner masculine expresses itself, not at first.

[trashking]

Thank you forbhelping me understand more! Thank you very much. Yes, he comforted me and i felt safe and happy. This was helpful and i appreciate it!