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I keep having these completely real like dreams of my ex-husband. maybe because im still in love with him. do I have to get over him for these to stop? I feel very, very sad & upset when I wake. any feedback is greatly appreciated!
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The ex may be a part of yourself in your dreams. Look at what you have in common with him. How is he like you in some ways?
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I don't know what to suggest as I go through the very same thing. I have been divorced for about 17 years and haven't seen my ex-husband since then. I have been happily married to my now husband for almost 12 years. Yet I still experience dreams of my ex. They are usually abusive and traumatizing. And I'm often fighting to get to my now husband. It is horrible and I wish to high heavens it would stop. I don't even think about him anymore. Yet he invades my most sacred time.
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The dreams can relate to fears and anxiety. Did experience abuse in childhood?
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