[dwfieldjr]

I keep having dreams of my cousin, he's a big ahole and we got into a fight to make a long story short.

Anyway I keep having dreams of spitting in his eye and face. There very angry dreams. I don't want to be friends with him again. I don't care if I ever see him again. I just want to stop having these angry dreams.

I don't feel like I have much of a family anymore or ever did, but what's left doesn't feel like much. Maybe I thought I was enter than them. Maybe they thought they were better than me. Idk.

[Thunder Bow]

Dreams can be mirrors. Maybe you were spitting at yourself, in this dream.

[dwfieldjr]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

Dreams can be mirrors. Maybe you were spitting at yourself, in this dream.

Thanks for the comment, but I have to disagree with you on this thunder bow. I'm nothing like this man. The actions and things my cousin says/does in these dreams are nothing I would ever do or say to someone.

[yugh]

Hi,
I have a general comment and then some questions for you.

When we have similar dreams over and over, this is us spiritually telling ourselves to listen more closely to ourselves. In my own case, for years I had similar types of dreams where people were chasing me trying to kill me. Once I learnt to listen to myself and address the underlying beliefs the dreams were about...the dreams stopped. I've never had them again years later.

So, it takes some courage to not only think you need to address what the dreams are trying to tell you but also to post it on a forum like this. I recognize this and thank you.

Now, on to your dream...

I've learnt that no dream scene is created chaotically or by chance. EVERYTHING in a dream scene has meaning, if only we are willing to look at it.

Therefore, what I'd like you to do is to tell me one dream in as much detail as you can recall.

First, I want you to tell me how many scenes there were in the dream. Then, FOR EACH SCENE ,I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left
2. To your right
3. In front of you
4. Behind you
5. Above you
6. Below you

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
Your cousin et al
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. Tell me any differences between the person in real life and the dream version...THIS IS IMPORTANT.
7. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I know this seems like a lot of work and you just want the "answer to your dream". HOWEVER, if you put the effort in, I think you might be surprised by what your dream is telling you about yourself.

Once you've done this, I'll happily provide an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

Thanks in advance for your efforts.

With kind regards,
Guy

Originally Posted by dwfieldjr

I keep having dreams of my cousin, he's a big ahole and we got into a fight to make a long story short.

Anyway I keep having dreams of spitting in his eye and face. There very angry dreams. I don't want to be friends with him again. I don't care if I ever see him again. I just want to stop having these angry dreams.

I don't feel like I have much of a family anymore or ever did, but what's left doesn't feel like much. Maybe I thought I was enter than them. Maybe they thought they were better than me. Idk.