[understandmoon]

So me and my gf had a scare. She kinda made herself look like she was cheating and i was like way confused and hurt. It later turning out to be a girl with a bf she was texting but didnt say till last meant. I confirmed it. She is a bit clueless and im a bit dense. However, We in the midst of talking told each other how things have felt from each others sides. she had a dream that i had girls on the side and that i will break up with her because i caught her with some guy she was trying to push away in her dream after she saw dream me cheat then cheating dream me came and didnt listen to her. I had a dream the same week of being in another relationship and being happy. not happier but way least stressed alot of focus on eggs like the clear part and the yoke in my dream. My dream self in my dream didnt realize i was already dating till the end of the dream and i told myself in my dream lets just see how far each relationship goes. Both in the same week. I really love my girfriend, We get along so well normally. Her life can stress me out though, Her parents are abusive ***** and she had to call cps after i helped her, but we cant see each other for 2 more years, Im 18 and shes 15. I originally thought she was 17 cause she would talk about prom but it turned out a month in her school as b
prom for everyone. We have been long distance for 5 months now. She was understanding enough to hear my dream. Sometimes she can be a bit shut in or down but her family is horrible so i understand to the degree i can. Sometimes though because of that i cant say everything thats bothering me cause she already has already shut down, it can make talking hard cause her dads so mean, her mom seriously hurt her and she told the police already and now her dad is calling her a villian and evil. He hopes she suffers and more. Her life is so hard right now. So i really want to clear my mind. I didnt feel so strange till the almost cheating, She has a habit of not saying things. She didnt say her age she just allowed me to assume this is on me though, She didnt say anything about her parents as i begged for there permission to be insulted by them. She holds alot in. She has a fear i wont be happy with her cause we are no sexual cause thats illegal. So no no sexual stuff. Its tough... im a bit confused recently.. What does all this sound to you?

[Thunder Bow]

You were separating the yolk from the clear part. You were seeing the relationship clearly. Do not get caught up in the Family stuff. Keep your distance. I hope she can find some professional help, do not try to Rescue her.

[understandmoon]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

You were separating the yolk from the clear part. You were seeing the relationship clearly. Do not get caught up in the Family stuff. Keep your distance. I hope she can find some professional help, do not try to Rescue her.

What do you mean by seeing thr relationship clearly?

[yugh]

Hi,
My take on dreams is different than many others. I suspect you are using the relationship to symbolize something much deeper inside yourself than your surface level relationship with your girlfriend.

What I've learnt from my own dreams is that there is nothing in a dream by chance. Therefore, if you answer the following questions, to the best of your recall ability, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

First tell me the number of scenes in your dream. THEN FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.
7. For people who you know in real life, tell me anything that's different about them in the dream versus the real life version.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I realize this is a lot of work. HOWEVER, I think you might be surprised by how much you can learn about yourself from a single scene.

With kind regards,
Guy

[Thunder Bow]

You separated out the parts of the Egg, meaning you can see clearly parts of the relationship.

[understandmoon]

Originally Posted by yugh

Hi,
My take on dreams is different than many others. I suspect you are using the relationship to symbolize something much deeper inside yourself than your surface level relationship with your girlfriend.

What I've learnt from my own dreams is that there is nothing in a dream by chance. Therefore, if you answer the following questions, to the best of your recall ability, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dream as if it was mine.

First tell me the number of scenes in your dream. THEN FOR EACH SCENE I want you to tell me the following:

Location:
I want you to look in your mind, as the observer, in the following directions and tell me what you see:
1. To your left.
2. To your right.
3. In front of you.
4. Behind you.
5. Above you.
6. Below you.

It’s all right if you can’t recall much. Simply tell me what you see and make sure I know what direction it is from you the dreamer. In my interpretation, you’ll see how this is a symbol itself.

When you are describing what you see, tell me in as much detail as you can recall about it. So things I am very interested in is what are walls, doors, windows, stairs, tables, etc. made of, age/style, colour, etc. The same goes for anything outside. You’ll see in my interpretations how all of this tells us lots about ourselves.

Lighting:
1. Tell me what the lighting was like, i.e. bright, dull, black, cloudy etc.
2. Then tell me where the light was coming from.
3. Can you tell the time of day or season?
Lighting is important in a dream because it’s a symbol of vibrational state. I’ll explain this during my interpretation for you.

Objects:
If there are any objects in a dream scene, then tell me about them as follows:
1. Shape, size, colour and what they were made of.
2. Where the object is in the dream relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc.

I’ve found objects in dreams are usually symbols of things we first need to concentrate on spiritually. I’ll explain this in the interpretation if you had any objects in any of the scenes.

People:
For each person in a dream scene I want you to do the following:
1. Describe them to me in as much detail as you can recall. This includes age, gender, clothes, colour of the clothes, what the clothes were made of.
2. Tell me where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, below, etc.
3. Tell me if they were lying down, sitting, standing, walking, etc.
4. Tell me what they did with you. Don’t skip the details. Simply tell me exactly what happened.
5. If there are any conversations or thoughts between you and the person or others, then tell me EXACTLY WHAT WAS SAID. This is important.
6. If there were others you couldn’t see but felt, then let me know where you felt they were in a scene relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, etc.
7. For people who you know in real life, tell me anything that's different about them in the dream versus the real life version.

Animals. Etc.:
If there were any animals, insects, birds, reptiles, fish or whatever in any of the scenes, then tell me. Describe them in as great as detail as you can recall. Also let me know where they were in the dream scene relative to you, i.e. left, right, etc. Then let me know of any thoughts that passed between you and them.

Thoughts/Feelings:
This is a very important part of every dream scene. Take your time, go back and tell me the following for each scene:
1. What was your first thought/feeling as the dream scene began.
2. Tell me of any thoughts/feeling changes as the dream scene progressed and let me know where in the scene this occurred.
3. Tell me your last thought/feeling as the dream ended.

I realize this is a lot of work. HOWEVER, I think you might be surprised by how much you can learn about yourself from a single scene.

With kind regards,
Guy

Location:
1. To my left was the girlfriend sittin once and standing
2.To my right was the egg yolk
3. Up was the sky still blue
4.Down was a shiny chrome floor.
5. In front of me was the gf and the yolk and a open futuristic chrome city
6. behind me was the chrome dinner hall

lightning
1. it was bright seeing how the metal was shiny
2.it was day
3.Cant tell season, im from california so sometimes they blend.

Objects
the only objects that stand out were a normal flat screen tv, A food packet that when opened held a clear egg yolk that kept its form as a round shape and it was clear with a golden shiny yoke and her purse which was white and on her shoulder

The girlfriend is the only one i remember.
She was a asian girl who was a light brown. (my girlfriend is mexican with a light brown) She was short and smiling. She was helpful when i didnt understand things in my dream. She was always to my left in the in my dream.
First when i saw her she was sitting and then standing. The girl looked similar to a girl i was like ehh with, I liked her as a person but not alot in looks, i never really liked her much. We didnt do anything but sit and have lunch and stand at a balcony with her on my arm. Everyone else was everywhere like a lunch hall but in the background.

Thoughts
At the beginning of the dream i was happy, calm, but like spacy. It was like a light love. Like it felt Like a lightbulb or smooth like a cold metal. Later i felt shock cause i remembered i had a girlfriend, i felt bad and like a cheater, Then i felt like wagering this relationship felt too nice to end but so does my normal relationship so i said in my head lets see how long till one ends. it was a bittersweet

[understandmoon]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

You separated out the parts of the Egg, meaning you can see clearly parts of the relationship.

in a good or bad way though lol

[yugh]

Hi,
I have an additional question for your before I begin doing my interpretation. It's about your location...I am a bit confused.

Are you outside in the dream or, are you inside or, a bit of both? To your right is the yolk..correct? Is there anything beyond it, i.e. a wall?

To your left is the girl who's sitting and then standing...correct? Is there anything beyond her, i.e. a wall?

In front of you, "In front of me was the gf and the yolk and a open futuristic chrome city" So, how can the girlfriend and the yolk be in front of you while at the same time to your left, i.e. the girlfriend and to the right, i.e. the yolk?

Above you is the sky...correct? So there is no ceiling...correct?

Thanks for your patience!

With kind regards,
Guy

[understandmoon]

Originally Posted by yugh

Hi,
I have an additional question for your before I begin doing my interpretation. It's about your location...I am a bit confused.

Are you outside in the dream or, are you inside or, a bit of both? To your right is the yolk..correct? Is there anything beyond it, i.e. a wall?

To your left is the girl who's sitting and then standing...correct? Is there anything beyond her, i.e. a wall?

In front of you, "In front of me was the gf and the yolk and a open futuristic chrome city" So, how can the girlfriend and the yolk be in front of you while at the same time to your left, i.e. the girlfriend and to the right, i.e. the yolk?

Above you is the sky...correct? So there is no ceiling...correct?

Thanks for your patience!

With kind regards,
Guy

Outside i guess like a giant balcony thats kinda walled in , a kinda like bar beyond the yoke, behind her is more people and chairs, in like a wide 170° angle are my gf and the yoke, later we walk to the end of the balcony and shes still to my left, the city is ahead, and a wall to the right. Yes there is only sky and the tips of skyscapers

[yugh]

Hi,
One last question..is the yoke you are referring to like a yoke used across animals? Or, did you simply misspell it and you are referring to the yolk from an egg or, is it something else?
Thanks,
Guy

[understandmoon]

Originally Posted by yugh

Hi,
One last question..is the yoke you are referring to like a yoke used across animals? Or, did you simply misspell it and you are referring to the yolk from an egg or, is it something else?
Thanks,
Guy

oh my bad, Yes a yolk of a egg

[understandmoon]

Originally Posted by yugh

Hi,
One last question..is the yoke you are referring to like a yoke used across animals? Or, did you simply misspell it and you are referring to the yolk from an egg or, is it something else?
Thanks,
Guy

yes it was a yolk from a egg

[yugh]

Hi,

Thanks for making the extra effort to provide me with more detail regarding your dream. Below is my interpretation of your dream as if it was mine. Dreams are for each of us to interpret on our own. Therefore, if anything I say below doesn’t resonate with you, then simply discard it. So with that said, off I go…

When I do my own interpretations or that of others, I always start with the location. I could have located it anywhere, at any time in any reality and…I’ve located it here. I’ve learnt that locations help to “spiritually frame in” a dream.

I will take the first of several sidebars here to help you understand the framework I use when interpreting a dream. This one will cover what I’ve learned about beliefs, belief compartments, people and the age of people. Then I’ll return to myself in the dream location.

In my dreams, things that are made by people are symbols of masculine and things of nature are symbols of feminine. I’ve learnt that before we incarnate, we carefully select the times we will live in, our families, life circumstances, challenges and potential exit points. We then carefully select our personality.

I’ve learnt we do this by selecting approximately 200 different “belief filters”. These are energy filters that have two polarities, a feminine one and a masculine one. We select the degree of polarity we are going to hold the belief, i.e. the degree of feminine or masculine. This then determines the belief vibratory level.

Each belief then works with the other beliefs, each with their own vibratory rate. They literally “filter our reality” by blocking out the greater reality vibrations we actually come from. They create the aura around us and create our thoughts/feelings for each moment.

We constantly tell ourselves about this in our dreams. We use symbolism to show ourselves about the beliefs and their limiting effects on us spiritually. We also show ourselves the “dis-ease’ created by some of our beliefs using colours in our dreams.

In my dreams buildings are symbols of what I call ‘belief compartments’. I’ve learnt that each wall is a symbol of a belief. Furniture within them are symbols of yet more beliefs that work with the overall beliefs to produce what I call are ‘belief effects’.

To symbolize to ourselves the many different types of beliefs we use in all our many lives, we often create our dreams in towns, cities or houses.

I’ve often found that in many of my dreams, people appear in the rooms or buildings. When I first began to record my dreams, many years ago, I frequently found myself in large warehouses full of boxes I had to climb over or in rooms in houses full of furniture. Imagine my surprise when I eventually learnt they boxes and furniture were symbols of masculine based beliefs I had to address first before I got to the walls!

As I spiritually listened to myself, over time, the rooms began to empty. Then I was walking through empty rooms. The next step was to see glass walls, windows and open doors, all symbols of how I was beginning to work my way out of the old belief walls. Then the walls began to disappear. In the end, I was usually flying over the old beliefs.

In many of my dreams when I began to keep a record of my dreams,, I would find myself in multi-storied houses. I then realized these are symbols of numerous belief compartments I use in one or more of my lives.

Then I found myself in towns and cities. I then realized that each one is a symbol of various belief compartments I have used in another life.

I will take another sidebar here and describe what I’ve learnt about people in my dreams…

When I first began recording my dreams, I would often find people in my dreams that I didn’t know or ones that I did know but they were doing strange things. When I tried to literally interpret my dreams, it usually didn’t work.

I had a near death experience 12 years ago that changed me. One of the changes was a determination to learn to meditate. I had stopped and started meditation all my life and had in effect gone nowhere in a hurry. So this time I was determined to stick with it.

I slowly learnt how to touch my “higher self”. One day, the thought came to me to use my higher self to assist me in interpreting my dreams. Then the dream gates swung wide open.

I’ve since learnt that people in my dreams may be who they are, symbols of my masculine and feminine, other lives, teachers, guides, oversoul, aspects of myself, people who I frequently incarnate with, etc.

When I first began to record my dreams I frequently began to see an old couple. They might change their appearance but there was almost always an old man and woman in the dream. Then a young girl and by appeared.

They too sometimes changed but they were now in the same dream as the old couple. However, they were “bit players” in my dreams as the old couple was the ones I was interacting with.

At first, I had no idea who these people were. Then, as I learnt to mediate and apply my higher self to my dream interpretations, my dreams gates swung open.

First, I learnt that the old man and women were symbols of my masculine and feminine. Next, I learnt that the young girl and boy were symbols of the feminine and masculine I could become. So I then used the terms “old masculine and feminine” and “young masculine and feminine” to describe these dream symbols to myself.

As I began to address my underlying beliefs, the old couple disappeared from my dreams and the young ones spiritually grew up.

I’ve learnt that people’s age in dreams is important.

When infants are in my dreams as other lives, this is usually a symbol we are just beginning our journey through the beliefs the dream is about.

When teenagers show up I realize I am making steady progress through my dreams.

When mature adults show up, it’s a sign that I am now spiritually maturing in dealing with the beliefs.

When old people show up in my dreams, I let out a sound of joy! It’s a sign that I am now ready to release the old beliefs.

I then learnt that things made out of natural materials are symbols of feminine beliefs that are now no longer working for me. In effect, spiritually speaking, they are now “dead” for me, i.e. dead trees – wood, etc. So, whenever I am in rooms made of wood or standing on wood, etc. I refer to this in my mind as “dead feminine”.

About a year and a half ago, I felt compelled to put together a free website documenting what I have learnt. At first, I didn’t want to because I felt what I had learnt was akin in my mind to a teaspoon of water compared to all the oceans’ water, i.e. not much. However the feeling persisted.

Today if you go to ‘learningfrommydreams’ dot com you’ll see what I created. If you go there, I suggest you look at 3 things. One is the meditation page where I list all sorts of different ways to meditate. Find one that works for you.

Then I recommend you read the dream discussion paper I posted on the website. It describes the symbolism I’ve learnt including people.

I recommend you look at the resources page where you’ll find an extensive list of things to look at.

Lastly, I want to make a note that we are the producers, directors, script writers and often main actors in our dreams. Therefore, there is nothing in our dreams by chance. It’s a language to teach ourselves about ourselves.

So with this said, back to my dream…

The first thing I note is that I am mostly outside. When I am outside in a dream, it’s usually what I call a “teaching dream” as opposed to when I am inside something it’s what I call a “learning dream”. So what’s the difference?

When I am inside belief compartments, the belief walls effectively isolate me from my higher self. I am therefore usually learning on my own. As I progress, windows appear and then slowly walls disappear…all part of a learning process.

When I am outside, there are no belief walls constricting me. My higher self and others can then instruct me. That’s why I call it a “teaching dream”. So, in this first scene I am in a “teaching dream”.

HOWEVER, I do have some symbols of masculine based beliefs around me, i.e. “like a giant balcony that’s kinda walled in.”

Above me was the blue sky and the sun, i.e. my higher self assisting me.

In front of me is “…a open futuristic chrome city.” Very interesting. So I am showing myself that spiritually in front of me, i.e. the spiritual work I have to do, is a city, i.e. a symbol of all the many masculine based belief compartments I have used in my many, many lives. Further, they’re made of chrome, i.e. a symbol of my masculine based beliefs that is all about appearance, i.e. it’s shiny. So now I know that this is a symbol of masculine based beliefs I hold that cause me to judge myself by how others judge me.

To my right is “A food packet that when opened held a clear egg yolk that kept its form as a round shape and it was clear with a golden shiny yoke.” So what’s this about? Hmm….

First I am showing myself a masculine based belief symbol, i.e. the food packet. When it’s opened, out pops a symbol of my feminine, i.e. egg yolk.

I will take another brief side bar here and tell you about what I’ve learnt about colours in my dream and then return to the golden yolk…

I have learnt that colours in my dreams are very important. They are symbols of how the beliefs affect different points on my etheric and physical body. The old Hindi’s of thousand of years ago saw three energies swirling into our bodies at several points they called “chakras”. Then they mapped 70,000 different smaller points they called “Nadis”. This then grew to 100,000 points. It was and is an amazing piece of work.

Since I can only see the first 6 inches or so of an aura around a person and I’m not yet able to see chakras, I use this reference for colours and general body location points “The Chakras” by David Leadbeater. You can find free copies of it online.

I find that this is the best reference I can find to date about colours but the colours in my dreams usually go beyond what I find in David’s reference.

So back to my dream…

A golden colour is my heart chakra. So this dream is showing me that my existing masculine based beliefs, i.e. the food packet, are restricting the flow of my feminine, i.e. the egg yolk, which in turn is affecting my physical and spiritual heart.

Below me “…was a shiny chrome floor.” Very interesting. This shows me that I am being supported by a masculine based belief AND its chrome too. So in front of me and below me are symbols of beliefs that on the surface level cause me to judge myself by how others judge me.

I also note that the other object in my dream is a flat screen TV. This is yet another symbol of a masculine based belief that I use to spiritually communicate. When TV’s, cell phones and computers show up in my dreams, I realize that my masculine based beliefs are restricting my ability to spiritually communicate –a feminine attribute.

So now I come to the star of the dream scene…the girl.

She is to my feminine side, i.e. left. “The girlfriend is the only one I remember. She was a Asian girl who was a light brown. She was short and smiling. She was helpful when I didn’t understand things in my dream. She was always to my left in the in my dream. First when i saw her she was sitting and then standing. We didn’t do anything but sit and have lunch and stand at a balcony with her on my arm. Everyone else was everywhere like a lunch hall but in the background.”

I will take this in chunks…

First, who is she? She’s another life. At the end of this interpretation is a recommended book to read about an over soul and some of it’s entities. I strongly recommend you read this to gain a broader understanding of who you are and why some of your other lives are showing up in your dreams.

When other lives show up in my dreams, I realize they are there for three reasons…

The first is to show me that they too share some of the same underlying beliefs that I do that this dream is about.

Secondly, they are showing me they are spiritually working with me. So now I know I am not spiritually alone.

Third, the way they are dressed and the colour of their clothes is a representation of myself spiritually speaking as well.

I will take yet another side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about clothes in my dreams and then return to my Asian other life…

In my old dreams, I frequently was in places nude and would panic that others would see me (I’m sure readers of this interpretation will have had similar dreams). I was always wanting to get dressed or hide away.

Imagine my surprise when I learnt that clothes are symbols of beliefs we “spiritually wear”. I then have learnt that being nude in a dream is a sign of spiritual progress regarding the beliefs the dream is about.

We are beings where we are both feminine and masculine. We live many, many lives as either sex, sometimes hermaphrodite, gay, whatever. Yet in the world we live in today, being nude is considered somewhat of a “sin”.

So, today, I always rejoice when I am partially nude or wholly nude in a dream. This also applies to footwear.

I’ve learnt as I make spiritual progress regarding a set of beliefs, frequently I am barefoot. Shoes are a way of symbolizing beliefs we use to separate ourselves from our feminine, i.e. ground we walk upon.

So back to my dream…

I wish I could recall more about her clothes and their colour. Regardless, she is wearing a symbol of a masculine based belief, i.e. a dress that is insulating her from her spiritual self – the same applies to me.

She’s Asian – she’s showing me that in this life I live in Asia.

She also has a white purse – Another masculine based belief symbol. It’s where we carry our money as well as a symbol of prestige. So, this is yet another symbol of the beliefs generating a surface level effect of me judging myself by how others judge me.

When the dream began she was sitting. I will take yet another side bar here and tell you what I’ve learnt about sitting, standing, etc. in my dreams and then return to her sitting.

When I am lying down in dream, it’s a symbol that I don’t have any spiritual ability yet to even see the effects of some of my beliefs.

When I am sitting, it’s a symbol that I need spiritual support to see the effects of some of my beliefs.

When I am standing, it’s a symbol that I now can stand on my own two spiritual feet to see the effects.

When I am walking, it’s a symbol that I am now steadily moving through the beliefs.

When I am running, it’s a symbol I am moving relatively quickly through the beliefs.

Note that I have found that spiritual time and our time are too different things. Usually my dream time is far faster than my physical time. So when I am running etc. I realize that it still will take “some time”.

Back to the dream…

So my Asian other life is showing me that both of us require spiritual support to even see some of the effects of the masculine based beliefs that are supporting us. I wish I could recall more about what she was sitting on for this would have told me a bit more about the underlying belief, i.e. the colour.

So my other life and I were both requiring spiritual support and eating symbols of our masculine based beliefs, i.e. the food. Then we spiritually stood and looked out over the spiritual work ahead of us, i.e. the chrome city.

“We didn’t do anything but sit and have lunch and stand at a balcony with her on my arm. Everyone else was everywhere like a lunch hall but in the background.” She is “on my arm”. This is a way of me sending myself a message that some of the underlying beliefs this dream is about relate to my ideas about masculine, feminine, sex, gender, roles and relationships. She is acting the way “men” like to have women be, i.e. pretty and reliant upon the man.

The other people in the restaurant? They’re some of my other lives, who also share the same underlying beliefs I do that this dream scene is about. They are letting me know they are spiritually supporting me.

And what were my thoughts/feelings in this scene?

“At the beginning of the dream I was happy, calm, but like spacy. It was like a light love. Like it felt Like a lightbulb or smooth like a cold metal. Later I felt shock cause I remembered I had a girlfriend, I felt bad and like a cheater, Then I felt like wagering this relationship felt too nice to end but so does my normal relationship so I said in my head lets see how long till one ends. It was a bittersweet.”
So I am calm and happy at the beginning. I don’t’ really understand what the spiritual teaching will be.

Then I felt like a light love. I am slowly spiritually waking up to myself. I don’t yet realize my surface level beliefs come from my deep inner beliefs I use to construct my personality. So I am experiencing what I think is love in my dreams.

Then I am becoming a bit lucid in my dream. I miss the spiritual point of the dream and then literally interpret it, thinking I am cheating on my “real girlfriend”.

I don’t realize that this dream is all about me. My other life in this dream, i.e. the Asian girl and myself, don’t yet see how we judge ourselves by how others judge us. We both share the same underlying beliefs that generate our surface level beliefs about a man and a woman. This “belief filter” then translates this into sexual relationships.

If this was my dream, I could choose to do one of two things. I could forget about it. However, it’s likely I will continue to have these types of dreams until such time as I choose to listen to it. OR, I CAN LEARN TO LISTEN TO MYSELF.

Speaking from personal experience, this path is not always easy since one must learn to face oneself BUT IT IS HIGHLY REWARDING.

If I wanted to learn to listen to myself here are some suggestions I could use:
• Learn to listen to my intuition – it’s my spiritual radar
• Keep a dream journal – each night I get a course on myself
• Learn to meditate – this is a way to connect with the greater me

There are many ways one can get in touch with one self…

Meditation is one way. The old Hindi's of 2,500-3,000 years ago wanted to have out of body experiences. They did this by occupying the conscious mind allowing their inner soul to rise. Today, this is called yoga and the OBE portion is mostly an afterthought.

When they were out of their bodies, they saw energy swirling into the body from the sun, from the earth and from the side. They called these main points "chakras". Then they saw that the energy went into small points they called "nadis".

They then did something that amazes me to this day. They mapped 70,000 different Nadi points and then it went up to 100,000.

This knowledge crossed over the Himalayas and went down into China. It became adopted as energy meridian lines. Today acupuncture uses this.

Yoga is simply one of many ways. On Meditation ? Learning From My Dreams | Dream Interpretation I list several different ways to meditate. You can go there and see if any one of these resonates with you. If so, then give it a try.

Another way is to use the hemi-sync technology that Robert Monroe pioneered to help people get to the theta state and have out of body experiences. You can go to the Monroe Institute to learn more https://www.monroeinstitute.org/. Books Bob wrote can be found here https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=la_B00N...qid=1477584351

Another way is to go to a hypnotist trained by the Newton Institute. This was created by a psychologist Michael Newton. About 30 or so years ago, he had a woman under hypnosis who went to a place she called her "live between lives". He then found out that many of his other patients went to a very similar place. He then write three books and began to train psychologists how to do this. The Newton Institute can be found here The Newton Institute for Life Between Lives Hypnotherapy. On this website is a link to find a local therapist.

To learn about other lives, I suggest reading a fictional trilogy “Over Soul Seven” by Jane Roberts. She was a great channeler who brought through an entity names Seth in the 1970’s. He wrote many books through her. She also wrote some of her own books.

The books I am referring to are a trilogy she wrote to explain, in a simple story form, complex ideas about us incarnating many times, at the same time. It’s an easy read and good way to get one’s mind around the concept of an over soul and many other lives.

The choice is yours to make. I hope that some of what I’ve said above deeply resonates within you.

With kind regards,
Guy

[Thunder Bow]

You are seeing in a God Way. "Yoke" might be the right spelling in this for this dream.