[Littlesunfl0wer]

Long story short, my ex boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me (technically I found out on social media that he was in a relationship already so it was like he didn’t tell me himself) April 10 but he has been seeing another girl behind my back since mid-March.. Aroud that time he has became a total different person and he also told me that if he wanted to break up with me he would do it to my face. (Yeah right) I remember the first few weeks of the break up, I didn’t know what to do or how to move on. I didn’t sleep, eat, want to be around friends or family, etc. I was a wreck. When I did sleep, I would see him in my dreams. At first I wanted to be back with him so much, but he had cut all contact with me including deleting me from all social media on April 10 so I wouldn’t see his “new” life with his new girl… I’m slowly recovering as some days I think about him all the time and some hardly ever. A few nights ago I had a dream I was in a thrift store near furniture and I so happen to see him there. I can remember that I confronted him about what he did to me. Then he looked me in the eyes and told me “This is why I can’t confront you, you’re reaction right there." Now I do remember him saying this in reality about me but not towards my face. We basically start arguing and I began crying. Next he sat down on a couch, face down and started crying. I have looked online to see what this dream interpretation could mean but I’m getting various answers. I know I’m the only one who can know what this could mean, but I’m clueless as to why he would cry to me in a dream. I know this is my dream, but I'm not fully sure I can understand it on my own. Any and all help would be lovely please.

[Thunder Bow]

He is mirroring your feelings. You may have hurt his feelings. Best to back off on the accusations in real life. Lots of mirroring going on in your dream. Go with those feelings, avoid the accusations.

[Littlesunfl0wer]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

He is mirroring your feelings. You may have hurt his feelings. Best to back off on the accusations in real life. Lots of mirroring going on in your dream. Go with those feelings, avoid the accusations.

Its like the opposite? He's hurt me and now he's hurting? Possibly?
I don't recall hurting his feelings at all during and after the time we were together. I don't know what or how to go with my feelings at this point...

[Thunder Bow]

Both of you are probably hurting. Talk with him, without any accusations. See how open he is about taking about the issue. Then take it from there.

[Littlesunfl0wer]

Originally Posted by Thunder Bow

Both of you are probably hurting. Talk with him, without any accusations. See how open he is about taking about the issue. Then take it from there.

I know I was hurting at first during the break up but now I'm moving forward. I still have feelings for him, but as for talking. He has removed me from all social media including Facebook and Snapchat. It's like he didn't want me to know about his new life which is fine.. also I think he's realising what's happening. Maybe he's hurting bc what he did to me, I don't know.

[Thunder Bow]

Then it best for you to move on. Nothing much you can do. He seems a bit immature.