Obsessed with where a guy lives

In my dream last night I was in an office with some other people. This guy was talking about where he lived but didn't say a place, he said he lived "beside the river". I asked him "above or below the river" and he said "above". I got a map from somewhere and looked at places above the river and started asking but he said no to them all. I got frustrated about this and assumed he was lying.

This seemed pretty intense. And my first thought was that it was something to do with my online crush (I know where he lives but not exactly and I've never tried to find out). But now I'm worried that maybe I'm subconsciously wondering.

The man in the dream wasn't him, was an older guy, but I can't help thinking that this was something about him. I really hope not. I don't think I'm that obsessed with him, and I have no intention of trying to find him.

Sounds like your dream is definitely about your online crush. Does he know you like him romantically? I think your dream is your subconscious mind processing your situation.

I think this dream means you should come forward to your online crush

Oh, and for all those women that want guys to know but have been taught to always let him make the first move...
Most guys find it very refreshing and a huge turn on to be approached by a woman. I personally think it's amazing.

He doesn't know and I could never tell him. I don't think it was him, he looked nothing like him, he was a lot older. M is in mid 30's with black hair, the man in the dream was older, probably late 40's and had dark grey hair (probably starting to go grey) and also had glasses I think.

I really don't want him to know, it would only drive him away. I don't think I really would want to, he lives too far away and I don't know that much about him (only what he has said on that forum). For all I know he might be a total idiot offline. I'd prefer for this to stay just as a crush. Though in my daydreams I wish he was my boyfriend, I think realistically, that's not what I want. It's hard to explain.