[katheryn]

some ppl would say i have weird dreams but i call them nightmares when they leave me feeling lost and alone,
this morning i woke to the noise of our kakarki's sqawking away, but i had been dreaming of hubby and and some past stuff which sometimes criops into my sleep and thoughts, this paticular dream was about hubby not answering his phone and a female answering(this might be triggered as i am going on a road trip and need to let huuby know where we are so he knows we are safe) afte a bit in the dream hubby came home and asked forgivness and i told him no chance then i started getting txtxs from others saying things like better behind your back than in front of face (this paticular one was suposed to come from a ex friend) i woke feeling sad hurt and very down
today though i talked to hubby and told him of dream he tried to make me feel better

[unpredictable]

I know what you mean about calling that a nightmare. I agree that nightmares aren't always scary in the traditional sense. It seems to me that it is more about what you feel when you wake up that makes it a nightmare.

[ToolandAPCrocks]

That's pretty strange. I've had weird dreams where I'm not even myself but someone else and all that... I've also had dreams about my boyfriend and ex boyfriend... very weird stuff. There are many different theories that people came up with to determine what are dreams? Why do they occur? Is there anything that can be learned from our dreams? Many questions about dreams but no matter what they are, or how they happen, they still have a great effect on us. Some people thing they are signs from a higher power concerning the future (de ja vu) or about choices we should make in our lives. Others believe they are thoughts that you (while awake) refuse to think of. Unconscious putting abstract thoughts into tangable things that you can relate to, like medaphors. Some people do the whole dream meanings thing, which I've tried and still intrested, for example if you dream of a snake it represents your fear. Whatever that's the symbolic dream interpretation. Others look at it as a "If I dream that I'm going down a river and I have no life support and my raft has a hole in it then it means that I'm out of control! I cant control my own life!" Which is more like the whole unconscious thinking thing. I donno. I probably didn't help at all. I say if you talked to your husband about this dream and he said it's okay, maybe you should trust your relationship more... you're questioning it. You should talk to him about it.

[katheryn]

i belive this dream is part of our past, as we went through some real rough stuff in 05, even seperating, those that have known us here for a while might remember some of the stuff we used to post bk then, like i said i belive this is because i am going away this next weekend and hubby will stay at home, so my emotions are all tangled up in there
thank you for your response