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Jan 20, 2010, 06:01 AM
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and somewhere along the way a person or persons told you otherwise. Those were lies. It is called "projection"----people who didn't love themselves (or hated themselves) told you lies about yourself. It was/is how they really feel about THEMSELVES, and has NOTHING to do with you. THey were not true. Unfortunately, as an adult you have to fight those old tapes.
If a person is confident and loving and happy with themselves, they have no reason to abuse another person. Abusers are excruciatingly insecure. |
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Jan 20, 2010, 06:08 AM
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thanks for this. its really helpful to know.
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Jan 20, 2010, 06:59 AM
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Yeah. Thanks for sharing. And since this situation is so common one would think that there would be a successful course in school where we would learn how to treat one another in a healthy way instead of having to pay a stranger to listen to our problems.
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Jan 23, 2010, 06:51 PM
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You are so right on this one. Thanks for saying it out loud so it can sink in for the rest of us...
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Feb 02, 2010, 04:12 PM
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Feb 09, 2010, 04:14 PM
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GREAT way of looking at things. I will remember this one!!! Thank you!
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Feb 10, 2010, 05:28 AM
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I love this. Thanks for sharing
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Feb 10, 2010, 10:18 AM
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The fight against those old tapes,,,*sigh* I know it well....the amount of cruelty aimed at me in this world is defeatingly ugly......
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Feb 17, 2010, 08:11 PM
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I love this too. This is very inspiring to me, because it is so true. I will remember it as well.
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Feb 17, 2010, 09:54 PM
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Thanks for sharing!
I really needed this today!
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It is a miracle that I have survived thus far and I strive to help others see miracles in every day life.
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May 18, 2010, 02:46 AM
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I donno, not everybodys perfect.
Babys arent potty trained and must CRY to express most of there bad emotions. They will make many mistakes in life and some people might think they are ugly. They might look underweight or overweight. But as long as they grow up and be the best person they possibly can, what does it matter? |
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Jun 25, 2010, 01:28 AM
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Yeah, Pashu, I agree with you. Babies are far from perfect when they're born. I was born two months premature, how's that for perfect? All kinds of problems from the start!!
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