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Default Nov 01, 2005 at 09:53 PM
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I have thses sexual atraction on girls, i feel bad about these feelings cause im afraid that people will hate me, like my family and friends. My mom figured it out some how and is upset about it, now i cant even respect myself. Is this wrong?

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Default Nov 02, 2005 at 01:51 AM
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((((( happybunny )))) I am sorry mom took it that way. Many people do not....Its not wrong to feel this way at all. You may wanna move this up to relationships so more people will see it

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A lot of people don't know how to deal with this kind of thing, so they're going to react very strongly when they find out. You just need to remember that just because they have their issues, it doesn't mean you are a bad person.
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((((happybunny)))),

It breaks my heart to hear you speak like this, I grieve that you feel this way.

First, you have to realize that the attractions that you feel are absolutely normal, and everyone else on the entire planet has sexual feelings about others of both sexes. There is no reason to dis yourself because of them, and no reason to accept the guilt that anyone, including your mother tries to pile on you about this.

Remenber, you are WHO YOU ARE, not what you do.

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