[Invisible1420]

No matter what, I am my own worst enemy. I cannot accept a compliment or allow myself to be happy. No matter how hard I try. Why?

Unfortunately, I cannot actually answer your question because I am quite the same way with myself. Wish I knew why. I am just never good enough. Good enough for what? I don't know. But I can never accept myself the way I am and be happy. I am always looking for things to change about myself. I don't want this post to drone on too much, but I hope you find some comfort in the fact that you're not alone in feeling this way.

[steelfang]

Welcome to psych central! We have an extremely supportive community over here. I hope you find what you are looking for.

What I learned to do was to writ, and just keep writing about your life until your sick of hearing about it, sick of it as a reality. then u breath, smile in a mirror, and walk out that door being proud of who u are. because god wouldn't have put u here if things wont get better. Things get better, always. please accept that fact and do what you can to help yourself. good luck...you are a good person, and u know it in your heart...now convince yourself it's the truth.