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Legendary Wise Elder
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Oct 31, 2007 at 07:33 PM
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.... you have half the members on ignore!
 You might be doing good self care if..... ...... you don't read trigger icon'd posts. Any body got more? You might be doing good self care if.... ???? __________________ |
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Pandita-in-training
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Nov 01, 2007 at 10:10 AM
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You might be doing good self care if
. . . you walk away from the computer more often 
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Nov 01, 2007 at 11:13 AM
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You might be doing good self-care if.... you listen to your T. 
__________________  Pegasus Got a quick question related to mental health or a treatment? Ask it here General Q&A Forum “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by it's ability to climb a tree, it will live it's whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein |
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Nov 03, 2007 at 10:35 AM
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You might be doing good self-care if....
You try to go out of the house for a while, and talk to others. |
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Nov 03, 2007 at 10:53 AM
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Oh those are all good!
You might be doing good self care---- if you take your medicine as prescribed. __________________ |
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Pandita-in-training
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Nov 03, 2007 at 05:36 PM
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You might be doing good self care
. . . if you laugh at yourself occasionally. __________________ "Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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Nov 05, 2007 at 03:36 AM
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... you might be doing good self-care if
....... you remember which of your boundaries are permeable and which aren't ... you might be doing good self-care if ....... you remember the positive things that people tell you about yourself __________________ Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. |
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Pandita-in-training
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Nov 05, 2007 at 12:10 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
SeptemberMorn said: you remember which of your boundaries are permeable and which aren't </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> LOL, I had a mental picture of trying to walk through a "house" wall like I could expect to and bouncing off instead :-) Good ones, September! You might be doing good self care if you remember to use "I" words. __________________ "Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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Nov 05, 2007 at 08:01 PM
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Everyone has permeable boundaries, Perna. If not, then maybe they need to rethink theirs. A house wall is hardly permeable.
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Nov 05, 2007 at 11:02 PM
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Hey, it works in cartoons and magic/fantasy!
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Nov 06, 2007 at 01:20 AM
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Boundaries can be thought of as firm yet flexible. Your boundary moves with you and is selectively "permeable." You are in charge of what you allow into your boundary. If something comes at you that you agree with or fits your experience of yourself, you can choose to allow it in and incorporate it into your "I" messages and self-talk. If, however, something is not a part of you or is not true for you, you can choose to leave it outside of your boundary.
Sheila K. McHenry Worman, Psy D., MFCC __________________ Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. |
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Nov 07, 2007 at 01:29 AM
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You might be doing good self-care...
... if you allow other's their own opinions and move on.
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Nov 07, 2007 at 09:51 AM
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You might be doing good self-care...
If you tell your family what is wrong instead of saying "nothing" all the time. I opened up to my husband yesterday and it actually felt good. |
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Nov 08, 2007 at 04:29 PM
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Good stuff here...
 You might be doing good self care if.... you are thinking ahead about how to cope with the holidays. __________________ |
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Nov 13, 2007 at 12:49 AM
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I must not be doing good self-care because I can't think of a thing to add.
 I'm thinking, though!
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Nov 18, 2007 at 02:26 AM
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<font color="purple"> You might be doing good self-care...
if you don't stay up until past 1am on the internet ... *points at self* </font> |
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Dec 01, 2007 at 07:44 PM
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You might be doing good self-care........
If you take part in some event like a local art & craft show, or flea market just for the fun of meeting new people. __________________ All my life I have know that I am different. I have trouble with my thinking and processing information. I have trouble in keeping close friends. I am afraid of living, and I don't really know why. I am good at pretending everything is all right, by just gritting my teeth and just charging ahead and getting through the rough spots, but inside I am afraid of failure and getting critized for things I do. I am hoping someone can help me, or at least understand me. |
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Dec 13, 2007 at 01:47 PM
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I think that you would be doing self care....
To take back my personal power to others when I should never have given it away.to with which begin. |
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Dec 14, 2007 at 12:47 PM
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You might be doing good self care if. . .
you try to use your own experiences and stories to help another, thus re-affirming their good lessons for yourself. __________________ "Never give a sword to a man who can't dance." ~Confucius |
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Dec 15, 2007 at 12:48 PM
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You go to a support group such as www.dbsalliance.org
click to find meeting near you __________________ 
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