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Old Oct 31, 2007, 07:33 PM
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.... you have half the members on ignore! You might be doing good self care if....

You might be doing good self care if.....

...... you don't read trigger icon'd posts.

Any body got more?

You might be doing good self care if.... ????
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Old Nov 01, 2007, 10:10 AM
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You might be doing good self care if

. . . you walk away from the computer more often You might be doing good self care if....
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Old Nov 01, 2007, 11:13 AM
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You might be doing good self-care if....

you listen to your T. You might be doing good self care if....
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Old Nov 03, 2007, 10:35 AM
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You might be doing good self-care if....

You try to go out of the house for a while, and talk to others.
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Old Nov 03, 2007, 10:53 AM
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Oh those are all good!

You might be doing good self care----

if you take your medicine as prescribed.
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Old Nov 03, 2007, 05:36 PM
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You might be doing good self care
. . . if you laugh at yourself occasionally.
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 03:36 AM
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... you might be doing good self-care if

....... you remember which of your boundaries are permeable and which aren't

... you might be doing good self-care if

....... you remember the positive things that people tell you about yourself
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 12:10 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
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you remember which of your boundaries are permeable and which aren't

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LOL, I had a mental picture of trying to walk through a "house" wall like I could expect to and bouncing off instead :-)

Good ones, September!

You might be doing good self care if you remember to use "I" words.
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 08:01 PM
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Everyone has permeable boundaries, Perna. If not, then maybe they need to rethink theirs. A house wall is hardly permeable. You might be doing good self care if....
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Old Nov 05, 2007, 11:02 PM
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Hey, it works in cartoons and magic/fantasy!
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Old Nov 06, 2007, 01:20 AM
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Boundaries can be thought of as firm yet flexible. Your boundary moves with you and is selectively "permeable." You are in charge of what you allow into your boundary. If something comes at you that you agree with or fits your experience of yourself, you can choose to allow it in and incorporate it into your "I" messages and self-talk. If, however, something is not a part of you or is not true for you, you can choose to leave it outside of your boundary.

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Old Nov 07, 2007, 01:29 AM
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You might be doing good self-care...

... if you allow other's their own opinions and move on. You might be doing good self care if....
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Old Nov 07, 2007, 09:51 AM
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You might be doing good self-care...

If you tell your family what is wrong instead of saying "nothing" all the time.

I opened up to my husband yesterday and it actually felt good.
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Old Nov 08, 2007, 04:29 PM
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Good stuff here...You might be doing good self care if....

You might be doing good self care if....

you are thinking ahead about how to cope with the holidays.
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Old Nov 13, 2007, 12:49 AM
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I must not be doing good self-care because I can't think of a thing to add. You might be doing good self care if....

I'm thinking, though! You might be doing good self care if....
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Old Nov 18, 2007, 02:26 AM
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<font color="purple"> You might be doing good self-care...

if you don't stay up until past 1am on the internet
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*points at self* </font>
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Old Dec 01, 2007, 07:44 PM
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You might be doing good self-care........
If you take part in some event like a local art & craft show, or flea market just for the fun of meeting new people.
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Old Dec 13, 2007, 01:47 PM
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I think that you would be doing self care....

To take back my personal power to others when I should never have given it away.to with which begin.
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Old Dec 14, 2007, 12:47 PM
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You might be doing good self care if. . .

you try to use your own experiences and stories to help another, thus re-affirming their good lessons for yourself.
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Old Dec 15, 2007, 12:48 PM
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You go to a support group such as www.dbsalliance.org
click to find meeting near you
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If you pick your nose and eat it instead of cuffing and adding to the wash load LOL!

Sorry I couldn't stop myself LOL
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Old Dec 16, 2007, 08:27 AM
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You might be practicing good self care ifl....
you learn to forgive and love yourself unconditionally.
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Old Jan 24, 2008, 09:19 PM
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As the wife of a Depressed husband,

I might be practicing good self care if I remember not to take his outbursts personally.
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Old Jan 30, 2008, 11:36 AM
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you might be doing good self-care if....

you actually take all advice into consideration.
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