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Default Sep 30, 2021 at 06:26 PM
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Self esteem is the ability to see yourself as a flawed individual, and still hold yourself in high regard!
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Default Oct 01, 2021 at 07:52 PM
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Thank you! We need to remember this. It reminds me of my cognitive behavioral therapy(cbt). And welcome to MSF!

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Thank you! We need to remember this. It reminds me of my cognitive behavioral therapy(cbt). And welcome to MSF!
Sometimes we just a little reminder.

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That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Default Oct 01, 2021 at 08:23 PM
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Thanks, Helen Keller said something similar, Acknowledge your deficiencies , but don't let them be your master!
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Default Oct 01, 2021 at 09:14 PM
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And what an incredible role model she was!

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Default Oct 01, 2021 at 09:32 PM
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Appreciate your feedback. Here's another. I stopped holding myself to a standard of where I should be, as a means of beating myself up when I'm not there. Ram Dass.
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Default Oct 01, 2021 at 10:09 PM
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Thank you. And Maharishi Mahesh Yogi fits here, too? How do you feel about Plato? Thank you for this thread! So spiritual & thoughtful!

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Default Oct 02, 2021 at 07:05 AM
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I suppose any author could be appropriate. Plato, All I know is I know nothing.. How about this one, Beauty is not in the face, but a light shining in the heart! Kahlil Gibran. Your value doesn't decrease, based on someone's inability to see your worth.

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Default Oct 02, 2021 at 11:33 AM
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Thank you. That's beautiful.

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Default Oct 04, 2021 at 03:41 PM
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....Your value doesn't decrease, based on someone's inability to see your worth.
So true this. I think for a lot of us, our low self esteem has been externally applied. I remember hearing Lindy West say this, that all her low self esteem issues had been externally applied - me too, I thought, me too.
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I suppose any author could be appropriate. Plato, All I know is I know nothing.. How about this one, Beauty is not in the face, but a light shining in the heart! Kahlil Gibran. Your value doesn't decrease, based on someone's inability to see your worth.

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Default Jul 27, 2023 at 10:13 PM
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Glad you're enjoying these fuzzybear
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Default Jul 30, 2023 at 07:10 AM
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Dear Diary today will be different today I can smile it will be genuine because today is the day I get to live.

This life will be good and beautiful, but not without heartbreak.

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That my life weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic and I owe all to Stephen. - Eleanor Gilbert Vampire Diaries
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Default Oct 04, 2021 at 09:56 AM
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Problems can also be stepping stones.
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Default Oct 04, 2021 at 11:21 AM
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Thank you again. I need to be reminded of this.

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Love this thread! Thank you for sharing.
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Default Oct 04, 2021 at 04:16 PM
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I feel the same way!

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Default Oct 05, 2021 at 04:42 PM
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I like this quote. " I have often thought that the best way to define a mans character would be to seek out that particular mental or moral attitude in which , when it comes upon him , he felt himself most deeply and intensely active and alive. At such moments, there is a voice inside which speaks and says, " this is the real me!" William James.
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