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I don't even know why I bother.
![]() I threw my back out this week and was feeling bad because there was no way I could work out for a few days and then I got to thinking... other than to be healthy, why do I even bother? ![]() Maybe I should just give of the dream of ever having a life. It's for people who aren't fatally flawed trash like me. There's nothing even the least bit redeemable here. |
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Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you.
![]() I hope these links help you somehow. I hope you feel better soon. Have a wonderful day. |
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![]() I'm sorry, but what is patience going to do for me if ten more years goes by? Stuff just gets worse. Time runs out. We get too old to do the stuff we want to when we're young. My garbage face gets even more garbage. The things I can make better don't matter. I could give a crap about my depression. I'm depressed because I'm worthless. |
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Meeting someone, falling in love, spending a few years traveling and experiencing life together, getting married / building a home together, then having a family...
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Why do you feel those things are time limited?
I know several people who those experiences did not happen to until 40s and 50s. |
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Don't put yourself down. There are plenty of other people who will do that for you. ![]()
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"And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!" . About Me--T |
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![]() My friends and co-workers have always been deficient when it comes to having eligible lady-friends around as well. If it wasn't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all as they say... ![]() |
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Yes I did mean men mostly, although as an aside I do know women who did not settle down with the right partner until later in life. Of course biology limits their options for family of their own (although I do know someone who thrived as a stepmother), in a way it doesn't for men. But I have seen both sexes find their compatible relationship later in life.
In some ways it is easier because for many of us as we age we get to know ourselves better, we have more life experience. Please do not feel the things you seek are time limited, they don't have to be. |
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![]() What doesn't work is what I ran into with my last relationship, where the girl I was dating wasn't on any sort of direction in life. She worked in the service industry (mainly fast food) and kept losing jobs over-and-over-and-over again. ![]() This goes back to wanting to live my life with the person I love. To have somewhat similar hours, and to be able to take the time off to travel together which is something I really want to do in the coming years. I mean, I do it now (mainly annual family vacations) and while I always have fun, it sucks seeing everyone else have their significant other there to enjoy the experience together. ![]() Quote:
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