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Old Mar 23, 2005, 04:35 PM
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Just need someone to tell me to hold on tight and it will get better.

Could someone please tell me this.

Thank you!
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Old Mar 23, 2005, 04:43 PM
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Sweetie, you are doing great. You are making some huge changes and I admire you! Hang on tight, things WILL get better! Thanks for posting and reaching out,

((((((((((((((((((nightdream))))))))))))))))))

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Old Mar 23, 2005, 05:03 PM
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((((((((((((((nightdream)))))))))))))))))

I agree with everything Fuzzy said. I also think though it would be a good idea to remember what January was saying in chat to you earlier, though I can't remember all the details, maybe some of what she suggested would help you in your search for peace Just need. You're going to do fine though Just need, you have strength in you to leave as you're doing.
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Old Mar 23, 2005, 05:04 PM
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That's why it's such a serious thing to ask a Centaur to stay for the weekend. A very serious thing indeed.

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((((((((((nightdream))))))))))))) I'm here for ya
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Old Mar 23, 2005, 08:43 PM
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((((((nightdream))))))

I'm sorry that you are feeling so low. Things will get better....believe in the love and strength inside of you...it's there....

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Old Mar 23, 2005, 10:12 PM
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((((((((((((((((( nightdream ))))))))))))))))))) your quiet, consistent strength amazes me. you will get thru this and we're right here with you.
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We are all here for you whenever you need us. Endless hugs and endless ears to listen and hold you in your time of need. Throwing good vibes your way. Take care
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Old Mar 23, 2005, 11:23 PM
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nightdream?

don't forget that sometimes it takes a while to recognize what better looks like so you may get there before you're aware you're there!

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Old Mar 24, 2005, 03:23 AM
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You have an amazing strength in you... as well as a quiet wisdom that's inspiring. You're doing great. Hang on sweetie. You'll pull through and if you ever feel that you can't, we'll pull for you. Lean on us if you need to. And you can always PM me. Take care. Much love.

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Old Mar 24, 2005, 07:52 AM
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wishing you stayaflaot if have room on my raftt i would pull you aboard Just need
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Old Mar 24, 2005, 10:50 AM
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I sincerelly thank you all!

All my things are packed but I'm not bringing anything with me, just my car and some cloths. I'm leaving all behind. My husband is still trying to get me to stay, sometime with his angriness, sometime with flowers, sometime with guilt.

I have hide all of this from my children until lately. It was very important for me that my children got what I didn't have the chance to have, meaning love, caring, understanding, protection, communication that would take them towards high self esteem, high self worth. I did succeed with my children. All 3 of them are wonderful. I sure hope in my heart that what I have giving them will not be destroy by what I'm going to do. I know they are seeing now what is happening between me and my husband and they love me very much but they also love their father very much. I hope they will understand at least a bit.

My move is next week, after Easter. I sure hope it will go as smootly as possible so to not upset the children. I have helped my youngest daughter move last week so they is now only me and my husband home. The day I will move there will be just us. I'm glad for that part, if something goes wrong at least the children will not be around.

I'm extremelly tired physically and mentally but I am still walking towards my plan. I am not turning back. Not this time.

I know there is people here that feels abondant and have a broken heart because someone have left them and I'm so sorry you are hurting. I didn't wanted to talk to much about this before so to not trigger anyone who feels abondant. I am in an abusive relationship and I just have to move on or I will die. I'm sorry if I am triggering anyone. I love you all so much. I don't want to hurt anyone here.

I am so grateful to all of you. This place is my refuge where I can find kindness, understanding and feel accepted.

Again thank you!
Many hugs to all of you!
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Old Mar 24, 2005, 11:07 AM
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I will be thinking of you. Please be safe and take care of YOU. You're very important too and you deserve to be safe. Just need

Take care!
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Old Mar 24, 2005, 11:13 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((nightdream))))))))))))))))))))

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Old Mar 24, 2005, 02:54 PM
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having been in your shoes, i am sending many, many warm hugs your way.....pat
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Old Mar 24, 2005, 10:14 PM
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Thank you! You are all so kind and caring.

Just need{{{{{{{{{Hugs to all of you}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Just need

with love,
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Old Mar 25, 2005, 12:16 AM
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SEnding thoughts of strength and love to you. I hope the move goes well....thinking of you....you are so very brave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Old Mar 25, 2005, 12:52 AM
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Thank you my friend!

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Old Mar 25, 2005, 05:39 PM
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Holding you in my heart, sweetie

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Old Mar 25, 2005, 05:53 PM
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Have been there and you are doing what you must do you are the most important one NOW
We love youand will be here for you
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Old Mar 25, 2005, 08:37 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Angela}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Angie}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Thank you dear sweeties! Thank you very much!

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Old Mar 27, 2005, 11:22 PM
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Nightdream,

My friend, please be carefull. You are kind, sweet and brave and you deserve to be safe and to be treated kindly.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sending you safe peacefull thoughts and hugs.

(((((((((Nightdream))))))))

With love your friend,

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