***TRIGGER**** Is this considered Sexual abuse?

Here's the scenario:

A girl from the age of 6-10 when visiting her Grandparents house crawls into their bed in the mornings and after the Grandmother leaves she stays because she's told to(by the Grandfather). And he makes her kiss him on the lips over and over while he rubs his hand under her PJ's
but not nessesarily touching her Gentinals,just mainly rubbing her back,chest and bottom(but over her underwear)....wilst asking if she loves him? ..........

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Has anyone had any similar experiences? or known someone who has?

For an adult to engage in physical intimacy (fondling) with a child is considered child sexual abuse. By asking the child if she loves him while doing so adds emotional abuse.

Adults should not receive their needs from children . . . period!

Thank you for the reply.Yes it was me.But along time ago.
The reason I ask is because the general public doesn't see it as very "severe" so they say it isn't." Kissing is not Sexual Abuse"....??? I have been so confused for years,
When it first came out my shrink told me she had to call the Pysch board or something like that and ask if it was Sexual Abuse. That is a stupid thing to do infront of a patient.
I remember thinking " I must be Exagerating "...I still feel that way alot. The cops did nothing.Filed a report but never did go talk to him about it. But I think at that point in my life I would haven't wanted them too anyway.

(((((((NoLeafClover))))))) Unfortunately, sometimes laws do not address every crime.

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My father would repeatedly tug at (sometimes for hours) my underwear causing vibrations to excite and numb my genitals.

It was sexual abuse. However, I do not know of any state law that will prosecute for that offense.

Any time an adult does something physical to a child that is manipulative or controlling in some way and is not to the child's benefit (such as grabbing them to keep them from running into the street or touching the BBQ), it is abuse, in my opinion....

For me, it was my uncle... when I was little, it was tickling... and that went on until I was 16 or so. He would not stop even when I screamed at him. And my mother would not do anything to stop it either. When I was a little older, 10 or so, it was too many hugs, particularly from behind, or he would try to kiss me on the lips. When I was older, say 14 or more, he would come up behind me and start rubbing my back or my shoulders. And he would not stop when I told him to. He even went so far as to clenching my shoulders hard enough to bruise the muscles, ordering me to relax. I tried to shrug him off, but he was stronger than me. And it only got worse when I got older.

if this little girl is 'made' to do something then it is a form of abuse isnt it??? I would have thought so anyway but the world is losing its glory day by day!!