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Old Nov 29, 2010, 03:40 AM
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Why??? Why is it that it took them just a few minutes at a time to hurt me yet it is taking me a lifetime to "get over it"?

Why is it I cannot be real with those around me or even get them to really hear me?

Why does it still hurt soooooooo much?

Why can I not sleep peacefully?

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Old Nov 29, 2010, 03:44 AM
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Yes, our child development is very important but we can always pick up as an adult and keep developing.

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Why is it I cannot be real with those around me or even get them to really hear me?
Are you working on this in therapy?
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Old Nov 29, 2010, 10:44 PM
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Yes, our child development is very important but we can always pick up as an adult and keep developing.


Are you working on this in therapy?
I wish but alas I have no insurance or money to see a t regularly...had to go off all my meds over the last year so first holidays without meds...make too much for assistance...i feel hurt and want to crawl under the desk and hide
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 01:50 AM
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((((silentwhisper)))) i am sorry you are struggling so much right now...
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 04:08 AM
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Why??? Why is it that it took them just a few minutes at a time to hurt me yet it is taking me a lifetime to "get over it"?

Why is it I cannot be real with those around me or even get them to really hear me?

Why does it still hurt soooooooo much?

Why can I not sleep peacefully?
Hey, I feel your pain. For me it hurts alot becuase the person why I am supposed to trust has done the unthinkable. Then thet have the nerve to tell me they love me. If thats the case I don't need to be loved.

I have to sleep on my stomache to feel safe, and take a setative.

Sometimes others around us don't want to admit that there's a problem because they can't handle the truth. I'm sorry you feel isolated and I encourage you to geep talking.
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 04:23 AM
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How about gov't sponsored or sliding scale fee therapy?
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 05:29 AM
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idk...does not help that i am 40, have not had a period since august (neg pregnancy test), having heartburn and nausea especially in the evening, cannot sleep at night big time, want to crawl under desks and stay there, apt to cry, and no money available to see a dr...mom did not go through menopause until in her fifties...maybe i am going thru it early? maybe it is an alter? maybe i am breaking down? maybe i am not strong enough to deal with the holidays...family was leary to give us presents kuz mom just sold them...it still frickn hurts
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Old Nov 30, 2010, 05:34 AM
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Can you contact the health dept. and see if you can see a doc there or if they know of a free clinic?
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Old Dec 02, 2010, 03:38 PM
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I'm so sorry that you are suffering.

Maybe these people can help? (outpatient clinics in Las Vegas):

http://mhds.nv.gov/index.php?option=...d=69&Itemid=78
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