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Dec 06, 2010, 06:52 PM
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hey everyone,
well im 15 now and last year i was dating a guy and well he raped me and ever since then i have been cutting myself to make myself get that day out of my head because it scares me ALOT i told my therapist but im always afraid that my boyfriend now is going to hurt me like he did what do i do?? |
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Dec 07, 2010, 01:37 AM
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I'm so glad that you are in therapy and I'm so glad that you told your therapist. Please continue to work with your therapist on this okay? Have you told your therapist that you are afraid about your present bf? (The best place to work on this stuff is in therapy).
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Dec 07, 2010, 01:00 PM
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I agree wiht Sannah, its great you are getting help and its natural to thinnk others may harm you if you have been harmed before.
Your T can help you work through this i am so sorry that happened to you - but glad you are getting help to get you throughthis - and as Sannah said please tell your T about your fears and im sure they can help you take care P7
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Dec 08, 2010, 11:36 PM
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Sweetheart, I'm so sorry to hear that this happened to you. You have already taken all the right steps towards recovery from what happened to you by telling your therapist. Like everyone else said don't feel like you are weird because you are scared of your current boyfriend. It is very common for you to be fearful of men or people in general after you are raped. You are doing all the right steps just keep talking to your therapist about it!
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