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Old Mar 15, 2011, 10:38 PM
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I was sexually abused by this older boy when I was in elementary school (one of many abusers I've had growing up).

Now I find out that there have been many others who were sexually abused by this same older boy all these years later.

I just found this out. I'm totally triggered and just don't know what to do.

I wonder what would happen if we all got together and confronted this piece of ****.

I wonder how many more victims this evil person has.

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Old Mar 15, 2011, 10:44 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. I was assaulted in my late teens, and again in my early 20's. It's never easy. The first was by someone I knew, the second was a stranger. Either way, it's not easy. I can't imagine it happening when I was a child...

I'm so sorry, and I hope you do go after this guy. I also hope you get the help you need. It took me years to really get over my stuff, and I still have issues sometimes.

Take care. Email me if you like...
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Old Mar 16, 2011, 05:07 AM
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I would take down all the names of every victim that you can find, including addresses and telephone numbers.

Choose one of you to go to the police and report him.

The police will take over.

Whatever you decide to do we will support you even if its nothing... Hugs to you.

Please go for therapy as well.
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Old Mar 16, 2011, 05:55 AM
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I am so sorry this happened to you! Could the ones that are willing, meet together to come up with a plan of action? There is power in numbers and the support could be useful to you!
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