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i emailed my t to get some understanding on something connected to csa stuff. and she emailed back asking what word i was wondering about. and said that maybe we can determine together what it represents. i thought that meant we would discuss it abit. but the next email said ................Thank you for sharing with me. I continue to be encouraged by your courage to look at some of this. like thats it. the discussion is over. im confused. i dont feel like i was helped at all with it. i still dont understand what i was trying to understand. not even a bit. guess im supposed to deal with it on my own. i dont need any support from her. obviously this cant be that important. im just gonna put what i was wondering about completing out of my mind. like it doesnt exist. thats my solution.
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Let us help then? You don't have to go through this alone, I am sorry your T wasn't very helpful, have you thought about E-mailing her about how you felt with her reply? You don't have to deal with this alone, it is also very important, but will your solution actually work? Putting something to the back of your head will only make it reacure later during life, would you like to tell us? Maybe we can help you understand, I'm sure many have been in a similar situation as you and will be able to help and support you ((Suzzie))
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thank you ((((((((angel))))))))) you are thoughtful. but i think this is just another post about nothing that ive made. i will try emailing my t once more and see.
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Suzzie - I agree, you need clarification from the first email! You shouldn't have to deal with this alone....burying it won't help - believe me I've tried! Sorry you're in so much pain. You are doing a great job in bringing these things up, I am proud of you!
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Maybe she meant that you all would discuss it in therapy?
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thank you ((((everyone)))
![]() this post has a good ending. i emailed my t again. twice. the second time i sent her some of the poems that i have written on pc. and she said they were really good. and she gets me better now. and some other stuff. i feel so much better now. i think she probably is just waiting to talk in session. |
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Good for you Suzzie!
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I'm so glad that you were persistent and continued to contact your T!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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