[mommyg2]

My husband was in a string of work related accidents about 2 years ago and was badly electrocuted. He is doing better health wise but as far as his actions and priorities, they have changed. He no longer puts the kids and I first. We are always a last resort.

He drops what he is doing to help other family and friends no matter how much we need him at home. we don't seem to matter anymore. I have been there to help him through his accidents and the recovery and supported him in every way possible.

Now he has this friend from high school that he has been talking to on email and texting. I have seen some of the conversations and they are quite inappropriate. I have confronted him about it and is now telling me about the conversations but still has the conversations with her on a daily basis. Most of the conversations occur after I have gone to bed.

How do I get him to understand that this really bothers me?

[Sannah]

You have told him that these things really bother you? If you have he knows but still wants to do what he wants to do? Do you think you 2 have grown apart?

[Mediator]

Hi mommyg2
I am not sure if you grow up apart but I wish you that you put your marriage together. I hope he will understand that you helped me in his bad time.
I do not know if you should try to talk with him or to use a help of counselling. But it seems that you should sort it before you will grow apart. If I understand you have children which are not grow up.
Take care
Mediator