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Unhappy Oct 25, 2011 at 08:55 PM
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Have you ever been really truly unable to figure out what you want?

I have a choice in how I can respond to a particular situation regarding an abuser, and I really truly can't figure out what I want to do.
I am currently physically safe from this person, and my decision will not effect that safety.
This person has held so much power over me in the past, and truthfully, in the present, that I really can't draw the lines between what I want, what I think they want, what I think other people want, and how I and they will respond as a result. Part of what I want is to figure out what everyone else wants, and do that. So how can I distinguish that part of what I want, from what I really want?
I don't know if this makes any sense. But any support or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks.
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