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Nov 30, 2011, 10:39 AM
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I don't ****ing understand why?
My mother is going out with her husband again, why why why why why. He is a sad, sad person and my mom takes him back. WHAT THE **** Why can't she see why I ****ing hate her?  Now I'll never see her anymore, I'm not putting myself in that situation anymore but why 
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Nov 30, 2011, 10:49 AM
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I just checked out a book from my library on women that keep going back to their abusers, which challenges the victim model of women that're abused, and then looks at it from the perspective that the women might have mental issues too.
it'll be an interesting read.
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In depression . . . faith in deliverance, in ultimate restoration, is absent. The pain is unrelenting, and what makes the condition intolerable is the...feeling felt as truth...that no remedy will come -- not in a day, an hour, a month, or a minute. . . . It is hopelessness even more than pain that crushes the soul.-William Styron |
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Nov 30, 2011, 11:00 AM
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Perhaps, it still doesn't make sense to me
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#4
Nov 30, 2011, 12:30 PM
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Your mom has issues. Most of our issues are emotional so you can't look at them rationally and explain them.
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Nov 30, 2011, 03:05 PM
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your ma may feel loved by him or wanted even though he is not a supportive person
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Dec 01, 2011, 05:16 AM
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sometimes the bad love feels to be needed just as much as the good -
it doesnt make any sense becuase there is no sense to it somtimes the comfort of knowing what is and will happen feels more certain than the fear of starting new and making changes my sister stayed wiht her abusive husband for 26 years she left him many times - and went back many times - it took 24 years for her to leave and a further 2 years for her not to want to go back it doesnt make sense.. but humans dont somtimes ((((((Ardmore)))))
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