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Old Dec 28, 2011, 02:36 PM
palemoss palemoss is offline
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i am sitting
crying
with my head about to cave in

i remember when i told him how my parents used to beat me and how i was so shamed and invalidated growing up...

it just went over his head...three weeks later we were done.

i am worth nothing
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Old Dec 28, 2011, 02:41 PM
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palemoss, is this a former boyfriend? Just because he was an *** doesn't mean you are worth nothing. YOU ARE!
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Old Dec 28, 2011, 02:45 PM
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((((palemoss))))

You are not worthless ~ You are a good person

No one deserves to be shamed and invalidated ~ a lot of people just can't comprehend how that feels. They can't relate to where we were nor can they relate to where we are emotionally. Not that we should only stick around those that have been abused themselves ~ but we need to appreciate that different people have different limits.

Gentle hugs to you, palemoss.
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Old Dec 28, 2011, 09:14 PM
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Was it a bf?
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Old Dec 29, 2011, 12:53 AM
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YOu are not worth nothing! he was an incosiderate asshole who doesn't deserve your love. Know that you are worthy of love and hopefully will find someone who truly cares for you as a person someday soon!

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i am sitting
crying
with my head about to cave in

i remember when i told him how my parents used to beat me and how i was so shamed and invalidated growing up...

it just went over his head...three weeks later we were done.

i am worth nothing
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Old Dec 29, 2011, 07:48 PM
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dear palemoss,

many people are unable to cope with another person's pain. you did nothing wrong, you ARE worth something, you had the courage to share your painful truth with another person, he was wrong (IMHO) not you.
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