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i am sitting
crying with my head about to cave in i remember when i told him how my parents used to beat me and how i was so shamed and invalidated growing up... it just went over his head...three weeks later we were done. i am worth nothing |
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palemoss, is this a former boyfriend? Just because he was an *** doesn't mean you are worth nothing. YOU ARE!
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((((palemoss))))
You are not worthless ~ You are a good person No one deserves to be shamed and invalidated ~ a lot of people just can't comprehend how that feels. They can't relate to where we were nor can they relate to where we are emotionally. Not that we should only stick around those that have been abused themselves ~ but we need to appreciate that different people have different limits. Gentle hugs to you, palemoss.
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Was it a bf?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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YOu are not worth nothing! he was an incosiderate asshole who doesn't deserve your love. Know that you are worthy of love and hopefully will find someone who truly cares for you as a person someday soon!
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dear palemoss,
many people are unable to cope with another person's pain. you did nothing wrong, you ARE worth something, you had the courage to share your painful truth with another person, he was wrong (IMHO) not you. |
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