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Mar 30, 2012, 02:01 PM
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I've been away for PC for awhile. Also, just started back with therapy. I've been having alot of new memores. Some of the memories have to do with my ex-husband. He was very abusive. I'm really ashamed to talk about alot of it. I feel like it was my fault. Because, I stayed with him so long.
I'm now in a healthy, supportive marriage. But, I'm still hurting from what happened before. |
 Dreamy01, geez, mortimer
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Mar 31, 2012, 08:33 AM
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I'm sorry you were in a difficult marriage. I was too and it takes time to heal. I am still in touch with my ex due to our son and I still feel afraid of him. He was a bully and to a large extent replicated my past. I'm glad you're in therapy and you have a supportive husband now.
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Mar 31, 2012, 01:38 PM
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I hope that you will be able to process these memories with your therapist.
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Mar 31, 2012, 01:47 PM
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(((princess))) I've found healing for me happens in waves. My abuse took place a long time ago and didn't start to process it until I was 36 yr old... and I'm still processing it. Many hugs.
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