[magickal1]

I've been reading some of the posts here, and I have a few things to add, that hopefully might help somebody.
My story in a nutshell: I was molested as a child, from the age of six to fourteen. I had no help to turn to. My own mother chose to ignore things, even when I went to her for help. When I was 20, I got pregnant, and married the father, a guy who I went to HS with. We stayed together for ten years. He was a perfectionist, and verbally/physically abusive.
I am now in a relationship with someone who genuinely loves me, and cares for me. I thought that when I was free of all that could hurt me, I would be alright. This is not the case, although I am now getting the help I need to deal with past experiences. I am realizing that things don't get better overnight, and I still have to deal with these issues. There is no time limit to healing.
For those out there who are being abused, I will say this: Abuse comes in many forms. It can be subtle, or extreme. If you or someone you know is being abused, DON'T WAIT to get involved and get help. It will make a big difference. I would say that I'm one of the lucky ones, but as I stated, I'm still working on things. I'm just thankful that I'm still here to talk about it. <font color="blue"> </font> <font color="blue"> </font>

[Lexicon78]

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I agree. It doesn't happen overnight...or for me, in 20 years. It takes a long time, maybe even a lifetime, to heal, but it is possible.

hadnet met you b4 so i just wanted to say welcome to the forum magikal

[brianm101]

I hope that you find your place here magickal1.

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