[haier]

i got a call..appt with T was cancelled. i feel betrayed. i don't want to go back. am so dissapointment. sad. a lot of feelings.feeling like trash and once again feel abandoned. don't know how i will get through this one. am really debating just stopping therapy, i cannot put myself through this. they wanted to reschedule i said no thank you i would call back. that's it.

[haier]

i feel a little better. T left me a message. wants to talk with me. i think because i didn't reschedule. i feel better now. i feel like i over reacted. still feel hurt but the way she talked when she left the message, i could tell she felt bad, now i feel bad for making her feel bad. i just wanted to write this here. i feel a little hopefull now and kind of dumb for feeling the way i did earlier. sorry. now i'm scared to call her back. i don't know what to say.

[healed84]

I think all of us have had strong reactions to having our appointment cancelled unexpectantly.. Call her and talk to her, I am sure she understands.

[Uthia]

Originally Posted by haier

i feel a little better. T left me a message. wants to talk with me. i think because i didn't reschedule. i feel better now. i feel like i over reacted. still feel hurt but the way she talked when she left the message, i could tell she felt bad, now i feel bad for making her feel bad. i just wanted to write this here. i feel a little hopefull now and kind of dumb for feeling the way i did earlier. sorry. now i'm scared to call her back. i don't know what to say.

She does not take your feelings personally. Call her back and make an appointment. Don't feel bad, **** happens. So what, you reacted in a reactive state of emotion. Believe me, therapists are ok with all of that and are understanding of you. No worries, ok?!