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Old May 06, 2006, 04:49 PM
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I have abuse issues that are up at this time, I am afraid to talk about them. I dont want anyone to laugh at me and think that i am a joke cause i was abused for so long and it still happens. Sorry. Bear.

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Old May 06, 2006, 05:05 PM
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((((((((((((((bearhugs)))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry. Please feel free to PM me anytime. Please be safe.
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Old May 06, 2006, 06:43 PM
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((((((((((((((( Bear ))))))))))))))

No one will laugh at you. We all understand abuse. Just be sure and put a trigger and major warning on it.

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Old May 06, 2006, 08:09 PM
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My heart goes out to you...
take your time....i'm here as well as others,
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Patricia xx Big abuse issues are up but afraid to post them Big abuse issues are up but afraid to post them Big abuse issues are up but afraid to post them
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Old May 06, 2006, 08:53 PM
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I don't think anybody here or anywhere else, at least the half decent people, would ever consider the abuse you are experiencing a laughing matter.

I know that fear that you are speaking of, maybe the fear this person may see this posts. I understand what you mean. There's absolutely no pressure to discuss this issue but if you feel you need to say it you came to the right place, you are as equal as all of us....we're all kind of loony if you think about it.

You must know that this abusive behavior is unacceptable, or you wouldn't be ashamed or fearful to discuss it. That's the step we all need to take in order to begin the path to maybe a resolution. Whatever it may be.

I really hope you will soon be able to discuss this, we may have something useful to say to help you situation. You'll never know unless you try.
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Old May 07, 2006, 11:09 AM
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Trust is hard to do when someone has violated you. You'll talk when you are ready. (((((huggs)))
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:03 PM
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JENNIE you are very correct in saying that trust is a hard thing. Yes i have been violated all my life, and also after having a very difficult time with someone on another site who hurt me very very badly. I am back online after taking about a two year break from being online and having constant disagrrements with people. Dont let that scare you i am safe. Bearhugs.
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:07 PM
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Thank you desirae for your reply. It makes a great deal of sense to me and I am glad that you say that no one would laugh at me for what i have to say. In time i think i will share more on whats going on with me. THank you for being here, bearhugs.
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:08 PM
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Jan thanks for the info on placing trigger before a post. I will do so if i have such a triggering post. Take good care, barehugs.
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Old May 07, 2006, 05:09 PM
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Patricia thanks for your post here. it means so much to me what you said. Thanks for being here for me. It really means alot when i truely dont have anyone else to really talk to that truely understands me. Bearhugs.
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Old May 08, 2006, 04:29 PM
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Bearhugs

I would never laugh at an abuse victim.I have suffered abuse on and off since childhood.

Take your time and post only what you are comfortable with.You are in control here.

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