 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Aug 26, 2012, 09:36 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Hi, I am new here and I am not exactly sure what I am doing.
Well to start things off, I was raped 4 years ago and lately the memories have come back and they are haunting me.. I having bad depression and I also have bipolar. The guy who did it too me also made me pregnant and I lost the baby because of stress. I was only young but it still hurt a lot. I want to know if there is anything or anyone who can help me. in the last few weeks I have had nightmares that he has found me again and he is going to do the same things again. Please help. Last edited by darkpurplesecrets; Aug 27, 2012 at 05:36 AM. Reason: added trigger icon.... |
 Anonymous33145, Harley47
|
|
#2
Aug 27, 2012, 10:32 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Working through what happened to you in therapy would be a good idea. Do you have a T?
__________________
Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
|
#3
Aug 27, 2012, 11:37 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I am so sorry that this happened to you. It is a lot to bear. I was rapped when I was 14 and then went through all kinds of guilt, being told it was my own fault. You deserve to heal from this and I think that counseling would be a good idea. It is hard to handle without lots of support
I also got pregnant during my senior year in HS and lost the baby at 2.5 months. Those feelings of loss are very real. I guess that one has to go through all of that to really understand how that can affect you We are very complex emotional beings. It is ok to ask for help and support. Here at pc there are many of us who can identify with what you might be going through Just want you to know that you are loved, that you are a valuable and wonderful human being, and part of God's creation. Hugs LARISSA |
|
#4
Aug 27, 2012, 05:45 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Are you seeing a therapist? If you're not, you NEED to! Please, see a therapist/psychologst/psychiatrist !! You need therapist to help you cope and deal with this. You can't do this alone, sweetie. It's too much to handle by yourself.
Are you able to see a therapist? 
|
|
#5
Aug 27, 2012, 06:22 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Hi. I to was raped at a young age. Durring my early teen years. After 20 years I sought help. It's never to late. The longer you wait the more you have delt with it your own way and the more time it will take to learn and accept dealing with it a different way. Definiately find a good T.
|
|
#6
Aug 27, 2012, 06:40 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I am so glad you are here and that you posted. You are not alone. Many of us share similar experiences and can relate. The traumas that you have gone through are heartbreaking. If you can find a T that specializes in Trauma and Rape that would be a good starting point. Also posting here and reaching out...there are wonderful people here that are supportive and understanding.
I hope you will continue posting and let us know how you are doing. Hugs to you, Rose |
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
