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Old Oct 09, 2012, 03:12 AM
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So, my boyfriend took me to his friends dorm, and we were drinking and doing pills. After a while, I was too messed up to even walk. The person who lived in the dorm went down to the bar, and left me and my boyfriend alone. My boyfriend took me into the bathroom, and yeah. Uh. We had sex. ._. Apparently? I don't remember it. .-. But, anyways. When the person who lived in the dorm came back, she had tons of her friends with her, and they kicked him out of the dorm, cuz they knew how drunk I was. Then they showed me pictures that they had of him cheating on me, and I just lost it. I drank all of the beer that as in the dorm.(ALOT...) and did tons of drugs, and all I can remember after that, was laying on a bed in the dorm, and the only people in the room were me and the girl who lived there.Then someone opened the door, and came in... And I remember feeling someone on top of me. When I woke up, I had hand print bruises on my wrists and neck, and was covered in cum. .-. I'm so confused.
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 03:59 AM
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Oh, Honey. They really set you up. It is never good to be drinking when you are taking pills. You should have reported it to a school counselor. You were passed out and someone took advantage of that fact. You need to talk to a school counselor. Like, Immediatly. If they took pictures of your boyfriend cheating to show you, who is to say they didn't take some of you with whoever it is that left bruises on you. You need to go to a doctors office and get the morning after pill, and get tested for STD's. I am so sorry, Sweetie. Please report this. Before it happens again either to you or someone else.
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 05:25 AM
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I know I dont know you ticli-otops but I would LITERALLY chop that boys **** off if I ever encountered him. im not kidding, prison would be worth it, IM SO SICK OF THIS ****!!!
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 08:07 AM
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Ticli, this is one of the dangers of drinking too much. Staying conscious is really important for your safety. Trusting the people that you are with is important too.

I'm really glad that your parents finally had to call a T.
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 01:59 PM
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When I sobered up, I started to remember more... I told my boyfriend about it, and he told me that if I wouldve just listened to him, and let him walk me home... it wouldve never happened... and that I did this all to myself...
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 05:54 PM
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Jesus Ticli...I am sorry....

I second the advice given by Lostmom (and honestly, Alice's as well, but that's neither here nor there)...you need to have this reported, and you need to make sure you're okay, you know?

Please try to be safe Ticli...I would advise against situations like this in the future. Your boyfriend (are you two still together?) is absolutely wrong and cruel in blaming you, and if I may be honest, damned stupid for leaving you there by yourself. I would tell you to try not to combine drugs and alcohol...I have a cousin who is no longer with us due to that, and this only reinforces my point. I am only sorry that you had to learn such a bitter lesson firsthand.

Please stay safe Ticli. You are in my prayers as always, and I hope your mom at last calling the T will set you on the road to recovery.

My absolute best to you, and many hugs.
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Old Oct 09, 2012, 07:12 PM
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Jesus Ticli...I am sorry....

I second the advice given by Lostmom (and honestly, Alice's as well, but that's neither here nor there)...you need to have this reported, and you need to make sure you're okay, you know?

Please try to be safe Ticli...I would advise against situations like this in the future. Your boyfriend (are you two still together?) is absolutely wrong and cruel in blaming you, and if I may be honest, damned stupid for leaving you there by yourself. I would tell you to try not to combine drugs and alcohol...I have a cousin who is no longer with us due to that, and this only reinforces my point. I am only sorry that you had to learn such a bitter lesson firsthand.

Please stay safe Ticli. You are in my prayers as always, and I hope your mom at last calling the T will set you on the road to recovery.

My absolute best to you, and many hugs.
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He's really mad at me for not leaving with him. But I was drunk. I make stupid decisions when i'm drinking(As most people do.) And I told him that I needed someone to force me to leave... cuz I didnt know if it was safer to walk home crossfaded, or stay there. And he doesn't believe that, that happened... at this point. We've been fighting all day, but he decided to stay with me.
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