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Sep 22, 2012, 01:32 PM
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Hello everyone... It's a shame what I am going through. I thought I was over my ex and what he did to me but I found out I am not. The hurt came back times 10... I would not want anyone to go through this. My ex hurt me over and over, made me feel worthless... All this pain is affecting my life now. I really want to let go and move on... I just do not know how to do that. As I try I take a step forward but get pushed back two steps. Does this ever get better? Can I find myself again? LOST, BROKE, CONFUSED
 I am afraid to trust and open up again. My new boyfriend is wonderful. We moved in together and some things he did reminded me of my ex. I try to talk to him about things and it helps a bit. I do not know how to be happy.
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Sep 22, 2012, 05:56 PM
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Working through this stuff in therapy would be really good. Is this a possibility?
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Sep 28, 2012, 11:57 AM
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Sep 30, 2012, 04:42 AM
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Kris, you really need to get into therapy. I'm not sure a relationship is a good idea right now. You may have gotten into one too soon after you broke up with your ex. It's probably having an effect on your current relationship.
Talk to your medical doctor and see about getting into therapy. Your doc should know a good therapist for you to see. The sooner you do this the better. You won't regret it. I wish you the very best Kris. Please keep us posted, will you? God bless. Hugs, Lee 
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