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Old Oct 02, 2012, 01:40 AM
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Old Oct 02, 2012, 10:18 AM
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Just look at the people here who have been with you since you have come to this site? We care about you.

What is happening where you are at that is making you feel that no one cares?
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Old Oct 03, 2012, 07:56 AM
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I know everyone is caring here
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Old Oct 04, 2012, 10:20 AM
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Old Oct 04, 2012, 05:20 PM
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((((Emotionally_drained)))) I'm sorry you are struggling right now...
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Old Oct 05, 2012, 06:28 PM
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why wont anyone want to love you?! You are precious. I just read your posts and I already can feel concern and affection for you.
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Old Oct 05, 2012, 08:20 PM
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I want to feel loved Herr to be held to be hugged feel alone
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Old Oct 07, 2012, 07:35 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this, and hope you get feeling better soon.

I don't know what type of abuse you've suffered, but I can tell you that growing up in an emotionally frigid home with parents who disliked me, I feel the same way a good part of the time. My husband is good at reminding it's not true, but when you've been through that sort of experience, no amount of words can convince you it's not true.
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 04:05 PM
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I want to feel loved Herr to be held to be hugged feel alone
(((emotionally_drained)))

If I understand what your meaning I too feel the same way.

I want to love the inner/younger child me but can't
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 04:26 PM
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I've been thru a lifetime of seeking love. I choose to be alone now, but I am not advocating that at all. I've done the exercises for loving your "inner child"...many times, till finally it kind of worked! In my case, it healed me from feeling the neediness to find love.
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 04:56 PM
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I understand your feelings but please believe you are loved and you deserve love xxx
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Old Oct 11, 2012, 11:08 PM
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Old Oct 17, 2012, 01:12 AM
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I've been thru a lifetime of seeking love. I choose to be alone now, but I am not advocating that at all. I've done the exercises for loving your "inner child"...many times, till finally it kind of worked! In my case, it healed me from feeling the neediness to find love.

Thanks for what you wrote! I need to do this!
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Old Oct 17, 2012, 09:47 PM
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Thanks for what you wrote! I need to do this!
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