[Girl-Interrupted]

Hi ...hmm im not sure where to start ...:/

Please can i have some help ....How do you decide whether or not to keep a baby that belongs to someone that abused you ....

A part of me doesnt want to keep it because it will always remind me what has happend ,but on the other hand i dont know if i will be able to give it up or anything like that

Found out i am preganunt and im so so scared i dont know what to do about it ..someone please help

[adam_k]

Can you get away from your abuser? I don't know the laws in the UK but in the USA a women has the right to choose. Can you seek counsling? From some of your recent posts it doesnt sound like you are in the right state of the mind to care for a child. I would seek professional help if I were you.

Originally Posted by Girl-Interrupted

Hi ...hmm im not sure where to start ...:/

Please can i have some help ....How do you decide whether or not to keep a baby that belongs to someone that abused you ....

A part of me doesnt want to keep it because it will always remind me what has happend ,but on the other hand i dont know if i will be able to give it up or anything like that

Found out i am preganunt and im so so scared i dont know what to do about it ..someone please help

Is there a Planned Parenthood
in your area? My heart goes out to you for all that you have endured.
You were abused and are pregnant from your abuser, this situation is
so fragile. You are fragile and in a scary place. There are resources out there for you but please don't put off getting in touch with Planned parenthood or perhaps your church. It would be so helpful to you if you could talk to a trusted adult about your siuation. Your vulnerable and it sounds like you feel alone. Please keep posting, we all care about you.
Warm Thoughts

[Girl-Interrupted]

Yes I think there is I'm just so scared I don't no how to tell anyone

[shortandcute]

That must be so hard! I'm not really sure what to tell you as far as keeping it or not, because each situation is different. I would definatly try to get some advice.

Originally Posted by Girl-Interrupted

Yes I think there is I'm just so scared I don't no how to tell anyone

Look up on the internet for Planned Parenthood, they usually have a site that you can post your concerns. You expressed yourself and it's important that you express yourself to someone who is qualified to help you. Tell exactly what you said here, they will have a sense of urgency about it and will be very supportive. do this today when you can, take time to do this it's important to not put it off. You were very brave to talk about here at the forum, you can trust planned parenthood as this is what they deal with everyday, for years they have been doing this.
warm thoughts.

[Girl-Interrupted]

Thanks for the support guys im going to have a look at the planned parenthood and see how things go from there

Originally Posted by Girl-Interrupted

Thanks for the support guys im going to have a look at the planned parenthood and see how things go from there

I want you to know that you matter, who you are, what you are feeling and going through matter's. You are important and I encourage you to call Planned parenthood. I truly believe they are there for a reason. You are reason enough for them to be there, for you. Please do so today, and I would love to know how you are doing, one step at a time, right?
warm thoughts.

[Girl-Interrupted]

Thankyou that really means alot ...im so glad to have you guys and yes i will let you know x

I really hope that you get some help with this as I never did.
Thinking of you and please let us know

[Girl-Interrupted]

i am scared i couldnt tell anyone

[Sannah]

You need to get some help with this girl. What is scaring you about telling anyone?

[Harley47]

Girl, bless your heart...I am sorry.

You do need to tell someone...I know it has to be scary. I'm not going to lie and pretend that is an easy prospect. But you need to have some help and support through this...it's not fair for you to have to go through this alone.

Please, please know I'm praying for you...don't hesitate at all to send me a PM if I can be of any help. I am open anytime.

Hugs, and all my best,
Harley

[astenon]

DGirl
Dont be scared of posting. The people on here are the most caring and non judgemental I have ever met. If you feel it would help to say it then go for it.

[Silent_Tears_17]

This site is really good for info and support. You can also talk to a counselor for free 24/7 through an online, anonymous IM.

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