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Oct 07, 2013, 11:16 PM
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36 years since the molestation. I finally find the courage to do something about it, thanks to my therapist, and I can't do piss about it. Statutes of limitations ran out decades ago.
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Oct 08, 2013, 03:50 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that
 But well done for having the courage! Even if you can't get the chance to confront it through the legal system that is a great milestone.
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 Shandar
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Oct 08, 2013, 04:11 AM
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Thank you. I still can't believe I sent it. I am not proud if it you, but it will get there.
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Oct 08, 2013, 05:54 AM
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If the abuser is still alive, you might want to write a letter of "restorative justice"---Restorative Justice says....this is what you did, this is how it made me feel. The letter is for YOU.
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Oct 08, 2013, 05:56 AM
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That is the kind of letters I sent. To him. His wife, one of his daughters and his grandson. Told them all what he did. Did that through FB but then also sent a letter typed and sent to he and his wife. My Dad was helpful in finding his address for me.
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Oct 13, 2013, 09:33 PM
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Did any of them respond to your letters? If so or if not, did this help your healing. Wish you the best in your journey.  You deserve some closure. |
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