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Old Oct 26, 2006, 01:30 PM
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I had physical therapy today... and I had someone new as my PT. She was very nice and all. But when I found out who she was.. a sister to one of the guys who raped me when I was 10, I tensed up and everything they had done today to help relax muscles.. everything tensed up when I learned who she was. So when I got home .. i thought about it... and ran it by some friends of mine. And they agreed that I needed to call the manager and talk to her privately. So I did. And she said she will see to it that I dont have this person again. I was so scared to do it.. I dont want it out to that family what happened. But I am not willing to subject myself to anything that causes me to feel uncomfortable either. I just hope I can trust that this will not happen again. Dont know why things like this keep popping up. I did it...
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 02:27 PM
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Hello I hope you are doing well at this time. I think you did well, in recognizing that you need someone not related to your abuser as a therapist. I hope things work out for you in the future. I am going to leave my email address in case you email neohiodbsa@yahoo.com. take care Soidhonia
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 03:56 PM
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Good Job, I am very glad for the road you chose,
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 04:34 PM
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I am glad that you called and found the strength to do that... now you wont really have to worry about having her or really running into her again. I know what you mean about an event that just keeps popping up everwhere... unfortunately we cant change that because it is beyond our control Good luck and take care of yourself.

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Old Oct 26, 2006, 08:50 PM
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My god that must have been such an experience,but well done for handling it so well and with confidence ad remember that this woman is sworn to secrecy and i wouldnt worry about anything gettin out at all.
x Barry
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 09:17 PM
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Very good! Congratulations on figuring out the problem and working to solve it. Way to go!
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Old Oct 26, 2006, 10:14 PM
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((((( Bethy )))))
I'm sorry this happened, but you did the right thing. I'm here if you need to talk.

Love ya, Jenn
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Old Oct 27, 2006, 06:48 AM
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Well done for sticking up for your self it took a lot of strenth to do that I did it...
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Old Nov 10, 2006, 06:18 PM
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That must have been horrible, but I'm glad you stood up for yourself and decided to see the manager... that is a big step...
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