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Dec 04, 2014, 12:01 AM
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He lied about his age to the mother, she only discovered it on the day they married
 but he was everything to her, she forgave all his lies, all his affairs, all his abuse. She allowed that ***** into her house  She wasn't angry or vindictive towards him Only to me, the baby who should never have been born  My fault for being born. She was "disappointed" 
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Dec 04, 2014, 12:33 AM
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Parents can do such awful things to their children. Sometimes they don't even intend to... but they do. It's not the children's faults. They're children. There is no child who should never have been born. To say a child should never have been born, suggests that the child came into the world carrying a load of unwanted paraphernalia... like a little troll with a sack of slightly devilish stuff on its back. No child comes into the world this way. Children just come into the world as a result of their parents' activities.
 The children don't ask to be born. They just arrive whether they like it or not. And once they have arrived they need to be loved... not blamed.It was not / is not your fault for having been born, Fuzzy. And you were not / are not responsible for what was done to you, how you were treated. You were a child. And now that child who was blamed... who was made to feel she was a disappointment still lives inside of you still yearning for the love that was not received years ago. I hope you will allow me, as well as all of the other members here who care for you, to send that child warm thoughts & hugs in an effort to in some small way make up for what was denied years ago.  
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Dec 04, 2014, 01:04 AM
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((((Fuzzy))))
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Dec 08, 2014, 08:17 PM
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(((Fuzzy))) You are a creation of God. You deserve love as all babies do; as all of US do. We value you! I know sometimes it is hard to remember that. I struggle with it too. Parents are to cherish their little ones. As adults, we sometimes have to fill in the voids our parents left. You are not alone. That is part of why we come together on PC: to offer support to each other in our difficulties.
 
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Dec 08, 2014, 09:44 PM
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Hugs Sweet ((((((((Fuzzybear))))))))
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Dec 09, 2014, 07:51 AM
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(((Fuzzybear)))
Being born is not 'your fault'. I'm so sorry you are feeling unwanted and a target for anger and vindictiveness. You do not deserve this and you never have deserved it. You do deserve love, acceptance and protection, you do deserve to be cared for. Bluegrey |
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Dec 10, 2014, 05:53 AM
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((((FuzzyBear))))
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Dec 10, 2014, 10:00 AM
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I'm so sorry.
 I'm sorry you weren't protected. I'm sorry you weren't cherished and that you weren't shown how special you were. But you are special.You are precious and boy are we all here so happy you were born! You have helped us feel good. (I get happy feelings every time I see your dancing bear.) |
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