[XoxoRosebud]

I had previously written a post about being molested by my father and was encouraged to see a counselor or therapist, but never did because the events hadn't happened in almost a year. Well yesterday he molested me again and I really want to talk to someone about it all because I know it has a big affect on me. I just don't know who to ask, are couselors/therapists expensive? I think there is one at my college, but I'm not sure if she would be qualified to help someone through something of this nature. Any opinions are appreciated

[XoxoRosebud]

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[Open Eyes]

XoxoRosebud,

You are allowing him to cross boundaries and you need to stop him from doing any more back rubs etc. period. It is obvious he is getting sexually excited by it and it is inappropriate how he is trying to touch you in more sexual ways. By not stopping it you are giving him permission to cross even more boundaries. You don't want it to progress, it IS wrong.

U need to call the police and report him

[HowDoYouFeelMeow?]

You're not giving him permission. He's taking advantage.

[Bluegrey]

Sorry, I have no idea about the expense of seeing a counsellor or therapist, as we have a different system in the UK. But if there is one at your college she may be able to give you some general help, at least, and she would also know more about what options you have including the financial implications.

So sorry this has happened again. I hope you find the right person to talk to quickly.


Bluegrey