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Apr 22, 2007, 08:39 AM
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I was assaulted about a month ago and ever since it happened I cannot get physically close with anyone. This is very unusual for me because I usually have to problems with giving affection.
This morning dad went to give me a hug and it was the scariest feeling in the world. I idolize my father so this is a big problem for me. As long as there is no physical closeness then I'm fine....but any physical stuff and I'm freaking out. My dad is the only man I trust...and it feels as if my feelings are screwing with me...I feel like I'm just a mess.
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Apr 22, 2007, 10:29 AM
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Lexi, did you get counseling after your assult, please see someone as soon as possible to help you sort out these feelings
Angie
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Apr 22, 2007, 12:13 PM
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lexicon i agree with angie
sorting out what happened and ur subsequent feelings will help you |
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Apr 22, 2007, 12:24 PM
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Because I don't have my own transportation and it's a free service to go to the local rape crisis center, county transportation will not take me there.
I have a counselor...just started and in that first session we had to do my treatment plan...I see her tomorrow...then I can talk with her...tell her everything. It's really hard when you have to wait...
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Apr 22, 2007, 07:33 PM
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Lexicon that is terrible that you had to wait so long to have someone help you. I am sorry, I hope the best for our session and your recovery..
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Apr 24, 2007, 07:28 AM
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I am sorry Lex! Sometimes I can't bear my husband to hug me (you will understand how that must affect me....) so I do know what you are feeling and how scary it must be.
I hope working it through with your counsellor helps.
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Apr 24, 2007, 05:33 PM
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Lexicon,
Im so very sorry to hear of this. I wish there was something we could do.
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